Is it normal if Im a different person with my current bf than w my ex?

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago | pl

    He doesn't really show much attention or appreciation but he says he just has trouble displaying emotion. Im not clingy in general, I wasn't with my ex, but with current bf I don't think I am still but cause he doesn't show me enough emotion, it makes me want it more. therefore, I may come off clingy and I don't like that

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    • (s)aint
      8 years ago | pl

      I sadly see this in a lot of cases, girls assuming there´s something wrong with them when it´s really something wrong with the guy they are seeing.

      I get clingy even when I have cuddled with my boyfriend for hours and he´s been gaming for thirty minutes x´D

      But slowly getting better at that, and that´s the point.

      You need to address that issue because you wont be happy in this relationship.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        8 years ago | pl

        Im not exactly sure though what to address to him. I can't really tell him what I explained in my post, either hell be confused or this is just too much info for him, I'd like to keep this to myself.

        But what I would tell him is what? He needs to show me more appreciation or as much as he says he appreciates me or else Imma come off as clingy?

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        • (s)aint
          8 years ago | pl

          Is it not a normal thing to ask for though? More attention and affection?

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