I would say; You were not as into your ex, but now that you are with someone you care a lot for you get clingy.
As another clingy person ...what´s the harm? I mean I know that my clinginess is extreme but I try to make the outlets as positive as possible from it towards my BF.
It would be disastrous for someone like me to be with a really distanced partner. Maybe your Bf is not showing you the attention and appreciation that you would really need?
He doesn't really show much attention or appreciation but he says he just has trouble displaying emotion. Im not clingy in general, I wasn't with my ex, but with current bf I don't think I am still but cause he doesn't show me enough emotion, it makes me want it more. therefore, I may come off clingy and I don't like that
Im not exactly sure though what to address to him. I can't really tell him what I explained in my post, either hell be confused or this is just too much info for him, I'd like to keep this to myself.
But what I would tell him is what? He needs to show me more appreciation or as much as he says he appreciates me or else Imma come off as clingy?
Is it normal if Im a different person with my current bf than w my ex?
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I would say; You were not as into your ex, but now that you are with someone you care a lot for you get clingy.
As another clingy person ...what´s the harm? I mean I know that my clinginess is extreme but I try to make the outlets as positive as possible from it towards my BF.
It would be disastrous for someone like me to be with a really distanced partner. Maybe your Bf is not showing you the attention and appreciation that you would really need?
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He doesn't really show much attention or appreciation but he says he just has trouble displaying emotion. Im not clingy in general, I wasn't with my ex, but with current bf I don't think I am still but cause he doesn't show me enough emotion, it makes me want it more. therefore, I may come off clingy and I don't like that
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I sadly see this in a lot of cases, girls assuming there´s something wrong with them when it´s really something wrong with the guy they are seeing.
I get clingy even when I have cuddled with my boyfriend for hours and he´s been gaming for thirty minutes x´D
But slowly getting better at that, and that´s the point.
You need to address that issue because you wont be happy in this relationship.
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Im not exactly sure though what to address to him. I can't really tell him what I explained in my post, either hell be confused or this is just too much info for him, I'd like to keep this to myself.
But what I would tell him is what? He needs to show me more appreciation or as much as he says he appreciates me or else Imma come off as clingy?
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Is it not a normal thing to ask for though? More attention and affection?