I think it's normal to feel that. You'll only get rid of that feeling after having an affair with 5 other guys - not at the same time but one after the other. THen you'll realise you've got a good thing, at which point you might have screwed up your current relationship and have it end with your bf finding out you've been unfaithful.
Moral of the story -- be happy with what you have, if you don't like it then leave. A female friend of mine felt the same way. She left the guy, and is now bouncing from one relationship to another relationship filled with unhappiness. She regrets leaving this guy now. So don't fall into that trap!
I think what your friend did is just satisfying a need. I know that the consequences lie in losing him forever, but f*ck! sometimes you cant keep saying "what if!?what if!?" you just gotta do it and see what happens. With that being said, although your friend is now bumping her head on a wall for leaving him in the first place, now she knows (well she knows more now than before) what she wants. For me, I'm dieing here!! I think I'm gonna leave him, not only because I want to explore, but because there are some qualities in him that I cannot stand and I even tell him. You can't explain what is that thing that makes you love someone, and thats what we have. He is not my type, we both want different things, but when were together, in the most happy times, we are just so into each other! But when I'm feeling what I'm feeling right now (annoyed by him and the whole situation) I really want to leave him. There's no other way to find out what I want if I don't do something about it, meaning breaking up with him.
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I think it's normal to feel that. You'll only get rid of that feeling after having an affair with 5 other guys - not at the same time but one after the other. THen you'll realise you've got a good thing, at which point you might have screwed up your current relationship and have it end with your bf finding out you've been unfaithful.
Moral of the story -- be happy with what you have, if you don't like it then leave. A female friend of mine felt the same way. She left the guy, and is now bouncing from one relationship to another relationship filled with unhappiness. She regrets leaving this guy now. So don't fall into that trap!
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I think what your friend did is just satisfying a need. I know that the consequences lie in losing him forever, but f*ck! sometimes you cant keep saying "what if!?what if!?" you just gotta do it and see what happens. With that being said, although your friend is now bumping her head on a wall for leaving him in the first place, now she knows (well she knows more now than before) what she wants. For me, I'm dieing here!! I think I'm gonna leave him, not only because I want to explore, but because there are some qualities in him that I cannot stand and I even tell him. You can't explain what is that thing that makes you love someone, and thats what we have. He is not my type, we both want different things, but when were together, in the most happy times, we are just so into each other! But when I'm feeling what I'm feeling right now (annoyed by him and the whole situation) I really want to leave him. There's no other way to find out what I want if I don't do something about it, meaning breaking up with him.