Its a very sensitive situation. Not everyone can handle an open relationship. They come with a slew of their own problems. Hell, it might even end up becoming a problem for you, not him. You just never know in these situations. Keep that in mind.
Opening a relationship up to more partners should probably be done slowly. Have you suggested a little experimenting? Maybe start small as kinky, then ask him about a threesome. It's a safer way to tell if its going to work. If the threesome goes ahead and you both enjoy it, you can try suggesting something more open afterwards. Remember to take it slow anyway and keep in mind it is a very, very sensitive situation.
Also, always always always let him know he's number one to you. He needs to be the main picture here.
Is it normal if I wish I met my boyfriend later in life?
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Its a very sensitive situation. Not everyone can handle an open relationship. They come with a slew of their own problems. Hell, it might even end up becoming a problem for you, not him. You just never know in these situations. Keep that in mind.
Opening a relationship up to more partners should probably be done slowly. Have you suggested a little experimenting? Maybe start small as kinky, then ask him about a threesome. It's a safer way to tell if its going to work. If the threesome goes ahead and you both enjoy it, you can try suggesting something more open afterwards. Remember to take it slow anyway and keep in mind it is a very, very sensitive situation.
Also, always always always let him know he's number one to you. He needs to be the main picture here.