Is it normal if i view people this way?

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You know how they say be yourself no matter what? Well Im starting to believe in it probably more than anybody else on this planet. Everyone judges everyone but whenever they say "you need to grow up", or "why are you shallow", etc, its like leave them alone, I thought we were supposed to accept pple for who they are and that includes their flaws, oh well. So for instance, if you're a girl and you act like a baby okay ya it could be annoying but honestly I don't want her to feel like she can't be who she is so I'll just leave her alone. Or if a guy is cocky then he is cocky even though like I said its annoying. So I just want people to feel good in their own skin regardless of their flaws, accept it, and live life. And if those people keep making you feel uncomfortable then walk away. Screw them. I am in the process of doing this, and just saying f*ck it. :)

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Sometimes people really do need to work on their flaws, though. For instance, people who abuse their significant others really need to stop doing that.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    We judge and we are judged.

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  • Memehoney
    11 years ago

    For a while I had a hard time being me. I'm very caring. I love animals, babies and just people are caring & nice. But in my younger days I felt like I had to be tough or I'd get bullied. So I tried to change and I began to see myself becoming shallow, heartless, and careless and mean. That's not me. So things in my life brought me back to reality I was knocked off my stoop and given a reality check. I'm me for a reason I'm caring and living which is awesome because in this day & age we could use more love & compassion for one another. I appreciate your story and you have a wonderful outlook on other human beings continue to stay this way. :)

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    I liked this mentality, I really do. If someone is doing something that hurts others, I feel like that would be the only exception. Or if they're doing something that's not good for themselves and you bring it up to them in a constructive manner, say "Hey <name>, I couldn't help but notice you're engaging in <harmful behavior>. I'm not here to judge, but as your friend if you need any help and blah blah blah..." that *could* be okay.

    I get this a lot unfortunately. :/ Bf is always telling me to grow up or be more mature when I get upset or cry over things. I don't feel like I'm immature, just sensitive and a little fucked up. We're human, we're all a little fucked up.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    yes it's poo

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  • 1232123212321
    11 years ago

    wow. ive never looked at it that way...

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  • bristexai
    11 years ago

    That's how I am too. I'm neither a conformist or a anti-conformist. I'm just indifferent. Also, why is everyone so worried about trivial things like entertainment or thousands of other things? People confuse me.

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