Just tell him. It was foolish of me but I was drunk and a guy showed me a little attention at a club. I was always the good girl so I wanted to try something new. Afterwards, we went to his car. I realized that I didn't want to lose my virginity to him. He tried to get me to have sex with him and almost succeeded but instinct kicked in and I said no. I felt bad for leading him on so I gave him my first BJ instead. Later, I met the current love of my life. I told him the situation when we were in the friends soon to be lovers stage and he understood. Sometimes, he still teases me about it but I think he was glad that I didn't lie to him. If I never told him the story and I pretended that I was "squeaky clean" he wouldn't be able to trust me like he does now and I wouldn't be able to deal with lying to my best friend/first boyfriend.
If you haven't already told any of your gfs and are sure you will NEVER reveal the truth then I think you should keep your mouth shut!
Your man will treat you like the good girl you are, and after a while your virginity will never be mentioned again. Anyhow, that fling in the club doesn't really count as a relationship - so forget about it.
Good luck whatever you decide.
Personally I'd say it's none of his business, you don't have to share every single detail of your life with someone. If you were to marry him, what would you talk about 30 years from now?
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Just tell him. It was foolish of me but I was drunk and a guy showed me a little attention at a club. I was always the good girl so I wanted to try something new. Afterwards, we went to his car. I realized that I didn't want to lose my virginity to him. He tried to get me to have sex with him and almost succeeded but instinct kicked in and I said no. I felt bad for leading him on so I gave him my first BJ instead. Later, I met the current love of my life. I told him the situation when we were in the friends soon to be lovers stage and he understood. Sometimes, he still teases me about it but I think he was glad that I didn't lie to him. If I never told him the story and I pretended that I was "squeaky clean" he wouldn't be able to trust me like he does now and I wouldn't be able to deal with lying to my best friend/first boyfriend.
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Me too.. Im always the good girl and just wanted to try something new and different, so I just went ahead with everything.
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If you haven't already told any of your gfs and are sure you will NEVER reveal the truth then I think you should keep your mouth shut!
Your man will treat you like the good girl you are, and after a while your virginity will never be mentioned again. Anyhow, that fling in the club doesn't really count as a relationship - so forget about it.
Good luck whatever you decide.
Personally I'd say it's none of his business, you don't have to share every single detail of your life with someone. If you were to marry him, what would you talk about 30 years from now?