IIN if I think we're all depressed?

That's not doesn't sound right to me. It sounds like you're just too used to being depressed and worry too much when good things happen.

In reality much of what we perceive as bad and good is relative to perspective which is why being grateful is so helpful. Because when you don't have much you come to cherish the little things. Now that I've come from a bad place I look forward to life and I know failures will come. I've finally recognized that failure isn't bad it's just a precursor to change.

You can't see life like balancing a feather against a bowling ball. As if one bad thing will derail your ride to sunshine mountain.