Not sure if you're in denial or not... but here goes. The problem is, you're not over your ex-boyfriend.
It doesn't matter how long you've been out that relationship or whether you two are JUST friends or not; the facts are, you're basing your future relationships on a previous one with a specific type of man.
You got to understand that it's nearly impossible to recreate that relationship, because what made that relationship great was the guy you were dating. The only way you can have that back is to date that same man again, otherwise you got to move on. I'm not saying you should settle, but just have the normal preferences like good hygiene, secure, has goals, etc; but don't plan out how the relationship should be, because like women, each man expresses their feelings in their own comfortable way.
It's tough being stuck on something you once had and want it back desperately; believe me it's something almost everyone can relate to, but don't let it consume you and disguise it as another problem.
Well Im not over him that Im not in denial of. He is my ideal guy and maybe I met him too early and hope once everything is more stable and established, we can be together in a better way
IIN if I think I'm doomed cause of my preferences?
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Not sure if you're in denial or not... but here goes. The problem is, you're not over your ex-boyfriend.
It doesn't matter how long you've been out that relationship or whether you two are JUST friends or not; the facts are, you're basing your future relationships on a previous one with a specific type of man.
You got to understand that it's nearly impossible to recreate that relationship, because what made that relationship great was the guy you were dating. The only way you can have that back is to date that same man again, otherwise you got to move on. I'm not saying you should settle, but just have the normal preferences like good hygiene, secure, has goals, etc; but don't plan out how the relationship should be, because like women, each man expresses their feelings in their own comfortable way.
It's tough being stuck on something you once had and want it back desperately; believe me it's something almost everyone can relate to, but don't let it consume you and disguise it as another problem.
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Well Im not over him that Im not in denial of. He is my ideal guy and maybe I met him too early and hope once everything is more stable and established, we can be together in a better way
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I hope so too. Good luck.