So, we ALL self harm (self harm is a term used for general cutting/biting/scratching on purpose). When we're angry, we clench our fists, and when we're nervous we tap our feet. We do this to release hormones that make you feel better, like when a person self harms/cuts. We don't realize that these things calm us down because we clench fists or bite nails until they bleed or whatever subconsciously and we don't think much of it. That's why we feel so good after exercising because this does the same thing: that's where tapping feet when nervous comes in. This is instinct.
Now, when a person is depressed, they aren't going to feel very good all the time, so they clench fists/bite nails/tap feet more often. So often that their bodies become immune to it. So they keep on having to do these things deeper and deeper to get the same effect. They will, after about 3 months, turn into scratches. Then cuts. Then deeper cuts. And more cuts. And they become addicted to cutting just like a person becomes addicted to drugs. The only reason why it's considered weird and stupid to others, is purely and entirely due to stereotypes. 'Emo', 'cutter', etc.
So yes, WE ALL SELF HARM.
Thats like calling yourself stupid.
Its a self hate thing they say it releases frustration they say they hurt themselves to aviod hurting others and sometimes this is used as a form of scuicide . I personly think this is a form of seto masochism but thats my opinion . however they say it is suppose to relieve there stress and this is from poeple I asked why they cut .
Also disagree that they are illogical Scuicide and Depression are perfectly logical poeple want to kill themselves when they for hopeless , helpless and trapped feeling that it is impossible to get out of there bad situation and Depression leads up to this . Depression is cuased when you are sad and something bad is cuasing you to nolonger be happy . I never cut but I became scuicidal becuase of fiath and self loathing when I was younger .However I think they are all very very bad ideas and you should never follow through
No it is not suicidal, 99% of the time. How could someone think that a whole bunch of little shallow cuts is suicide?
People cut/self harm for the opposite reason: to live. It doesn't make much sense, but read my really long reply above.
Is it normal if I think cutting yourself is stupid?
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I dont get it either, cutting other people is much more fun.
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So, we ALL self harm (self harm is a term used for general cutting/biting/scratching on purpose). When we're angry, we clench our fists, and when we're nervous we tap our feet. We do this to release hormones that make you feel better, like when a person self harms/cuts. We don't realize that these things calm us down because we clench fists or bite nails until they bleed or whatever subconsciously and we don't think much of it. That's why we feel so good after exercising because this does the same thing: that's where tapping feet when nervous comes in. This is instinct.
Now, when a person is depressed, they aren't going to feel very good all the time, so they clench fists/bite nails/tap feet more often. So often that their bodies become immune to it. So they keep on having to do these things deeper and deeper to get the same effect. They will, after about 3 months, turn into scratches. Then cuts. Then deeper cuts. And more cuts. And they become addicted to cutting just like a person becomes addicted to drugs. The only reason why it's considered weird and stupid to others, is purely and entirely due to stereotypes. 'Emo', 'cutter', etc.
So yes, WE ALL SELF HARM.
Thats like calling yourself stupid.
Its a self hate thing they say it releases frustration they say they hurt themselves to aviod hurting others and sometimes this is used as a form of scuicide . I personly think this is a form of seto masochism but thats my opinion . however they say it is suppose to relieve there stress and this is from poeple I asked why they cut .
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Also disagree that they are illogical Scuicide and Depression are perfectly logical poeple want to kill themselves when they for hopeless , helpless and trapped feeling that it is impossible to get out of there bad situation and Depression leads up to this . Depression is cuased when you are sad and something bad is cuasing you to nolonger be happy . I never cut but I became scuicidal becuase of fiath and self loathing when I was younger .However I think they are all very very bad ideas and you should never follow through
No it is not suicidal, 99% of the time. How could someone think that a whole bunch of little shallow cuts is suicide?
People cut/self harm for the opposite reason: to live. It doesn't make much sense, but read my really long reply above.