I dont understand how people think sex somehow changes feelings or whatever...I have had my heart ripped out by girls I never had sex with and I have had sex with girls that I couldnt even tell you their name or would recognize them if I saw them.....
For me sex and love are two totally different things ...I really wish they came in a nice package like that but they dont for me...
Now in your case , it might confuse you to searte the two feelings, but even then you do still care about him...he is aart of your life and feelings ..so its not like its a starnger...but listen to your heart
So in other words you would have sex with anyone? and it doesn't have to be with love? Well that just explains it cause you're a guy. Sex for girls and guys are two different things in general. Pretty sure there are girls out there who look at sex as just pleasure and guys who look at sex with love. But yeah, this proves how for males, sex is just to get a piece of meat. Sad.
Love is a very complex thing and not necessarily the same for everyone...what is love but very intense feelings of longing, desire, care, attraction and time......for me to be truely in love my heart would have to yearn, my brain would have to be stimulated and my sex desire would have to rage and they in turn would have to feel the same and these feelings of not being able to live without each other would have to last over time....I have felt these feelings a few times but the girls never reciprocated...now I am 50 yrs old and frankly have given up on love...it hasnt happened when I was at my peak of health, fitness and virility so I am done waiting...I hope you dont have so many disappointments , hurts, and frustrations but if you do you would understand.....
So I now pursue only pleasure ...not that I dont want love but that I am done waiting for it...I will soon be a dried up old man ...dead and in the grave...although I am still fit, healthy and virile...but I will be old soon enough...so those brief embraces of desire and sweetness are better than nothing...young people like you think life is forever..it is actually gone before we know it...and we are old and shriveled up soon enough
IIN if I still want to have sex with him?
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I dont understand how people think sex somehow changes feelings or whatever...I have had my heart ripped out by girls I never had sex with and I have had sex with girls that I couldnt even tell you their name or would recognize them if I saw them.....
For me sex and love are two totally different things ...I really wish they came in a nice package like that but they dont for me...
Now in your case , it might confuse you to searte the two feelings, but even then you do still care about him...he is aart of your life and feelings ..so its not like its a starnger...but listen to your heart
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So in other words you would have sex with anyone? and it doesn't have to be with love? Well that just explains it cause you're a guy. Sex for girls and guys are two different things in general. Pretty sure there are girls out there who look at sex as just pleasure and guys who look at sex with love. But yeah, this proves how for males, sex is just to get a piece of meat. Sad.
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Love is a very complex thing and not necessarily the same for everyone...what is love but very intense feelings of longing, desire, care, attraction and time......for me to be truely in love my heart would have to yearn, my brain would have to be stimulated and my sex desire would have to rage and they in turn would have to feel the same and these feelings of not being able to live without each other would have to last over time....I have felt these feelings a few times but the girls never reciprocated...now I am 50 yrs old and frankly have given up on love...it hasnt happened when I was at my peak of health, fitness and virility so I am done waiting...I hope you dont have so many disappointments , hurts, and frustrations but if you do you would understand.....
So I now pursue only pleasure ...not that I dont want love but that I am done waiting for it...I will soon be a dried up old man ...dead and in the grave...although I am still fit, healthy and virile...but I will be old soon enough...so those brief embraces of desire and sweetness are better than nothing...young people like you think life is forever..it is actually gone before we know it...and we are old and shriveled up soon enough