Is it normal if i sometimes want to be gay?

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So I'm straight and I've always dated girls, I have had 5 sex partners and they are all women, but I sometimes get an urge to want to be with a guy and have sex with a man. I'm not totally gay but I have had my penis sucked by a guy and we hooked up (no sex or much) but I've never had sex with a guy. I don't know how to keep it a secret from friends and I don't know where to find another gay guy.. is it normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I'm the other way around. I, like you, wish I were gay...but because I can't deal with the headgames, drama, and moodswings of women. However, I look at a beautiful woman and think "yum." I can't get away from that. Then...I see a guy that everyone thinks looks nice and...not a single fleeting moment of sexual attraction comes to mind. Ever.

    Simple explanation...though I wish I were gay...I'm not. You have some sexual attraction to other men? You probably are to some degree.

    I know that you know this...and you're probably hoping that some straight guy would change...just for you. I hate to piss on your parade, but if a guy can get a boner for another guy, he's not completely straight.

    I know this for a fact because I have gay friends. They admit that their ultimate fanasy is to "recruit" a straight guy. It's like a conquest. The "forbidden fruit" is an erotic goal for them...and this site is riddled with people trolling for that.

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  • peterrabbyt2
    10 years ago

    Suck a few cocks and get back to us.

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  • Unlockedone
    10 years ago

    you are having Bi feelings nothink to worrie about have a look on gay dar but just be carfull on there as there can be some right nutters

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    Sounds like bicuriosity. Just go for whatever feels right and whatever label you think fits you best

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  • 777electric
    10 years ago

    Then you're Bi, no 2 ways about it dude.

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    • Charmo
      10 years ago | pl

      Well, if he's bi, then there kind of are two ways about it...

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      • 777electric
        10 years ago

        I see what you did thar.

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      • Holzman67
        10 years ago

        Touche'

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  • peterrabbyt2
    10 years ago

    If you see my cock you will want to be gay forever just like suckonthis.

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  • starie
    10 years ago

    You can't sometimes want to be gay.
    You either are or you aren't (or you're Bi)

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