Is it normal if i love/hate her?

OK so i used to go out with a girl out for about 7 months and I really liked her, we texted, hanged out, kissed, etc. etc. Well anyways there is certain things that i don't like about her; and for these reasons i have broken up with her. I have been single for 3 months now and i still think about her. I want to get back with her but i dont want to face the certain things that i hate her for. Sometimes i just want to argue with her and tell her to 'improve' her habits or whatever, and sometimes i just want to lay down with her and talk to her hold her, kiss her, look her in the eyes and tell her i love her. Is it normal to love/hate her?

Is It Normal?
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  • What are some of the things she does if you don't mind me asking.

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    • I forgot to mention that i am her first boyfriend.
      she doesn't really know how to be a good girlfriend.
      she's always indecisive, a little immature, not a good conversater, a bit socially awkward, and so on and so forth :c

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      • Those don't sound like reasons to break up over to me, but you know her better than I do... I think what you are experiencing is normal though. All relationships have their positives and negatives.

        Merry Christmas by the way :)

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        • yeah, that's true i know the real her
          & thanks :)
          Merry Christmas to you too :)

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  • you love her, but there's certain aspects of her you don't like. it's normal. unless she changes her habits as you put it, i'd stay away from her.

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