Is it normal if i look at my cousin as my type of guy?

He's like my second cousin and when I see him, I think thats my type of guy right there! haha. There has been some awkward times between me and him (I know), and obviously what can we do but laugh it off. NO WAY. But that doesnt stop me from considering him when it comes to checking out guys. Ill look up to him as my ideal guy.

Is It Normal?
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  • For years, I always chose guys who were similar to my cousin. Then I realize, nothing beats the real thing. :P We're now engaged.

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  • 2nd cousins are legal in every state in the us and have no significant difference in the percent chance of birth defects.
    It's normal. He's a guy you're a gal. I see nothing wrong with it personally, but then I have a baby girl with my own cousin so I am slightly biased on the issue.

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  • I thnk it depends on how close of a cousin he is. As a second cousin, he's fair game as far as genetics and the law are concerned, but how closely did you grow up with him? To me, that influences the squick factor.

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    • Actually, we're pretty close for 2nd cousins and thats why its kind of funny to think about it. I mean he came to visit along with the fam today just like on any other occasion. Yesterday he wanted me to go to my aunt's house really badly; I feel like we're about on the same page.

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      • I don't think there's anything wrong with it unless it makes you uncomfortable. What do you think the family will think?

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