Is it normal if i hate how i was raised?

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If my family and I were on tv youd think im one ungrateful b*tch because they're normal and supportive. We are so normal that I dont fit it in with the rest of the world and its pre-tty annoying. In a way I blame how i was raised for being a noob pretty much and just not socially compatible with the world. It seems as if the ones who grow up with no family support and full of drugs are the ones who survive society socially. But because I was born in a family that everyone would look as "perfect", I just dont know how to "socialize". The reason is obvious i mean the majority are effed up and I am not a part of that fortunately or unfortunately? I do not know but what i do know is my family's "goody-normal-perfect-ness" has cost me a lack of being social. Plus Im young lets say 19-22 so I want to enjoy my youth but how can I when i was brought up to be soooooooooooo idK BORING?

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Everyone should be blessed with your problems!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You're old enough to make your own life now. Stop moaning about the good job your parents did and take responsibility for your own happiness.

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    your family failed. they raised a moron

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  • upfromtheashes
    12 years ago

    I think perhaps you should try to find more interests. Interests give you something to talk to people about! A lot of people are feel socially inadequate especially at a young age and practice really does help. Pay attention to how other people talk to others your age. What do they bring up that others relate to? But remember to be yourself! No one likes a liar.

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  • Chillpill
    12 years ago

    I think you were lucky. I was brought up in a dysfunctional family and now have a strong need for harmonious relations. I really find it hard to deal with conflicts. Maybe it should have toughened me up, I don't know, I guess we're all different.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    good is not boring. drama is not fun make your own fun

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