I really don't think it has much to do with being female. I've been with guys who have admitted to having these kind of feelings. Which guys tend to have. Guys have strong feelings.
To me? Either he's not THAT in to you, he's really busy or he's hesitant to commit due to whatever. I'm a female and I tend to be the "black or white" one as you say, and the men I tend to find are usually the ones with the strong emotions like this (except er... not always as confused...). This "black or white" thing is the main complaint against me in most relationships of mine, anyway.
So uh... once again, it doesn't have much to do with you being a girl. You just happen to be with a rather aloof guy.
I guess opposites do attract considering your situations and mines. I know that in the past, I've been with guys who do show emotion and I'm the one who's more hard headed. I never was into those guys anyways because they were a little too emotional and clingy for me. Finally I met this guy who I felt was my twin because I just saw these characteristics of mine in him but the ironic thing is he brought out the emotional side of me. I think one of the reasons why he was attracted to me was cause I didn't take things too seriously and I was just about good times. Now that I caught real feelings, he sees more of the emotional side of me and I just wish he could know all of this suspiciousness/insecurity from me is coming from a good place for him.
But the fact that he hasn't ran away, I should just chill before he does and accept that because he hasn't left he is into me and I need to stop bothering him or I should just let him know that all of this is coming from a good place and to not think I'm those typical crazy girls.
IIN if I hate being a girl in this case?
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I really don't think it has much to do with being female. I've been with guys who have admitted to having these kind of feelings. Which guys tend to have. Guys have strong feelings.
To me? Either he's not THAT in to you, he's really busy or he's hesitant to commit due to whatever. I'm a female and I tend to be the "black or white" one as you say, and the men I tend to find are usually the ones with the strong emotions like this (except er... not always as confused...). This "black or white" thing is the main complaint against me in most relationships of mine, anyway.
So uh... once again, it doesn't have much to do with you being a girl. You just happen to be with a rather aloof guy.
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I guess opposites do attract considering your situations and mines. I know that in the past, I've been with guys who do show emotion and I'm the one who's more hard headed. I never was into those guys anyways because they were a little too emotional and clingy for me. Finally I met this guy who I felt was my twin because I just saw these characteristics of mine in him but the ironic thing is he brought out the emotional side of me. I think one of the reasons why he was attracted to me was cause I didn't take things too seriously and I was just about good times. Now that I caught real feelings, he sees more of the emotional side of me and I just wish he could know all of this suspiciousness/insecurity from me is coming from a good place for him.
But the fact that he hasn't ran away, I should just chill before he does and accept that because he hasn't left he is into me and I need to stop bothering him or I should just let him know that all of this is coming from a good place and to not think I'm those typical crazy girls.