Is it normal if i get called a fag and a queer and im ok with it?

Well, hopefully they'll tire of your lack of a response, and eventually leave you alone. What these bullies want is a response, and it's good that you're not giving them one.

lol same thing with me. ive been called stupid alot lol i really didnt care

Insulting someone only displays your own faults. The people taunting you are the messed up ones, and that's their problem.

Maybe you don't feel things anymore because you are subconsciously trying to protect yourself? Like you wont allow yourself to feel things because you are afraid it will hurt, so you shut it all out.

Having thick skin is a positive personality trait - don't be one of these insufferable libtards that complain about every single perceived slight.

Thanks guys it really helped