Is it normal if i feel no love for my mother?

I believe that i hate my mother greatly, at a young age she has been against me. I believe this is the reason that i feel no love or compassion for my mother. She would come home everyday and yell and complain about everything and if something is wrong she thinks right away that it is my fault. I have had to deal with this for 15 years. Oh i also forgot to mention that she thinks that i now do cocaine/crack just because i have smoked weed, she will not allow me to work to make money because the guy i work for is supposedly a drug dealer. Even though he is a hardcore Mormon. When i saw her crying i should have felt sadness maybe even love, but all i felt was hate. everytime i see her cry it just makes me even angrier. Every hour that i have to be around her it infuriates me, she is a woman that does not listen to reason, she finds every way to make her life miserable, she is a idiotic woman, when she is done complaining she then brings up things from the past and continues to complain on and on and on, i have once tried to just relax and talk to her.. the result? her yelling at the top of her lungs telling me that I'm being rude. Is it normal for me to hate a woman that has never done anything good for me and all she has done is yell at me everyday?

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  • Is it normal to laugh at the ''hardcore mormon'' part?

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  • I feel the same way. ]; ♥

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  • earplugs

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  • Run away Love

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  • My friend's mom was like this. I think it's normal not to love someone that doesn't do one thing that a loved one should do. Some of the things my friend's mom did: hit him in the head and put him in the hospital when he was little, accused him of having sex with his cousin (and told the whole family), stole any money he had, and took out a bunch of credit in his name. There's still some question as to who his father is.

    A lot of people told him, "That's your mother. You still have to love your mother!" I don't agree with that at all. He's pretty normal now, but mostly because he doesn't talk to her any more.

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  • wow Kodaa. my mom's totally a taurus. and she was like that too.

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  • I don't really love my Mother either. It's more of an obligated love towards her..I don't even like the woman. Shes cold-hearted, aggitating and somewhat of a pseudo intellectual..Ah well, what can ya do? Parents are parents. We can't pick and choose.

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  • my moms like that hun, I tried and tried , she didn't tell me she loved me yelled and complained everyday, I tried talkin to her she didn't listen, I finally got in bad depression ( I only had her , I moved to a different coutry did'nt have friends or knew the lanuguage well) and I tried committing scuecide. She saw me passed out pretty much dead on the floor and after i got out the hospital it got even worst, she was horrible. It's been a year and she is now finally having good days with me. It takes a lot of time, yelling and patience, but she will see what she is doing one day. She is your mother you have to love her no matter what, trust me this might sound impossible, the day will come.

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  • Moving out won't help ,when my mother was 16 she had me and my nanny was against it.....my mam and her were constantly fighting even before she got pregnant.....my nanny was like my second mam.....I was the closest of all the grandchildren...... My mam and her often kept their distance.......6months ago today my nanny died very young and there is not one day where my mam is not crying with regret .......

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  • Teenage problems. What a life.

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  • Twenty bucks says your mother's zodiac sign is Taurus.

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  • Move out.

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