I know what you mean in terms of expressing himself. At first, I hated it and questioned his feelings for me (i still do as you can see) but he kept making his point that he does like me but he has his own way of showing it and like I said, cause i love him I tried to accept it rather than just walking away. Now, i don't accept it as much and trying to be patient with him expressing his feelings cause ur right, in the long run it will be a bigger problem.
Your advice is actually what Im doing right now and thats holding back a little and letting things go with the flow. Plus, thats what I think too about going slow which is why I try to bite my tongue when I want to tell him lets just be official already. But he lets me know, there's no rush and going slow is for the better. That def makes me more confident in us.
But thanks, I truly hope so too and even if its not my fault, the pain will be hard. Ive already dealt with it a few times when I would lose hope, heck, going through it right now...but I just try to relax before I really lose him.
For how long have you been seeing him? I've somewhat been in a similar situation just recently and it killed me inside but now? I cannot be happier that I managed to give him the time that he needed to grow secure with me.
But I would not have been able to put up with it if he hadn't been super affectionate and caring towards me ...
IIN if I feel like im in some type of marriage?
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Thank you for this!
I know what you mean in terms of expressing himself. At first, I hated it and questioned his feelings for me (i still do as you can see) but he kept making his point that he does like me but he has his own way of showing it and like I said, cause i love him I tried to accept it rather than just walking away. Now, i don't accept it as much and trying to be patient with him expressing his feelings cause ur right, in the long run it will be a bigger problem.
Your advice is actually what Im doing right now and thats holding back a little and letting things go with the flow. Plus, thats what I think too about going slow which is why I try to bite my tongue when I want to tell him lets just be official already. But he lets me know, there's no rush and going slow is for the better. That def makes me more confident in us.
But thanks, I truly hope so too and even if its not my fault, the pain will be hard. Ive already dealt with it a few times when I would lose hope, heck, going through it right now...but I just try to relax before I really lose him.
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For how long have you been seeing him? I've somewhat been in a similar situation just recently and it killed me inside but now? I cannot be happier that I managed to give him the time that he needed to grow secure with me.
But I would not have been able to put up with it if he hadn't been super affectionate and caring towards me ...