If you've been in a serious relationship with him for a while, you're sister shouldn't date him--that would be a super shitty thing to do. I once had the chance to screw my bother's ex girlfriend (they were serious), but I didn't, even though I find her attractive.
Well see it can go either way. Humans do shitty things, it doesn't matter if its messed up that prob won't stop it from happening after all, shit happens. Then it can turn out like you, yeah they both have a thing for each other but they won't do anything about it because it's a messed up thing to do to me. Either way, the truth is there. Both ways are extremely shitty. Heck I rather have them be open about it and start dating then secretly into each other. It makes me so depressed.
I Agree, people do shitty things. Now back in the day I had more morals than I have now. I Suppose the years made me more selfish and not being sorry. I Also have been less caring because I know caring only hurts you more if you care too much.
When I was 22 my best friend was the other guy. And when I had the chance to do the same to him I didn't. But ask me these days and I would. And wouldn't be sorry about it either, other people shouldn't ruin things if it doesn't work out for them, if another person is a match for them it shouldn't stop them from dating.
I made out with a woman in a relationship saying they have a open relationship, I didn't do it because it was a open relationship they have, it's because I was being selfish and I wanted her and I got to. And it doesn't even bother me or worry me.
Anyways, you should stop thinking so much on this because the more you do this and wind up pushing him away or talk about it you will for certain lose him. Personally though if it were me, I would prefer being with someone who doesn't look down on me, because I know I deserve better than that. So do you.
People deserve all kinds of things, but it's up to people themselves on how they see what they are worth and what they are willing to believe and fight for more than what they got they thought at first they deserved, until a person does something about it, this is what you got until you can learn to let go or fight.
I get what you're saying but I haven't mentioned it to him however I have thought about it like in a slick way. I just know if I do it will for sure create a lot of tension so that's why i just resist and hold back.
There have been times where I feel confident about it like it doesn't bother me thinking about it cause its just so ridiculous how could it happen? He obviously loves me and were crazy about each other. Then I picture her face if I were to bring it it and it would be super shocked as if this assumption of mine never existed in the first place and I'm just thinking crazy things.
Sigh like I said if God is on my side it would turn out that way. I'd look completely crazy for thinking this but I can't deny my feelings bout it. Something just feels so wrong and I get embarrassed thinking about the official moment where the truth comes they like each other cause it is embarrassing. It's one of the most humiliating things anyone can go through. Your partner choosing your sibling over you.
Things like this are never easy. I Been hurt, cheated on, and back when I had more morals I was the other guy in a relationship, he was never around, He was from Scotland and he was in the submarine so he be gone for a long time. So it was easy for her to pretend being single. She did the fake pregnancy thing, she was a compulsive liar. There is more to it though, but where this story is ending up at I have no idea if I have a child in Heaven or not, because if it was fake or not it didn't make it. She denied me of being with her when it was lost. Even though she lied a lot sometimes she would tell the truth.
All I know of relationships are that most are fickle and don't last. And more drama to deal with than being single. I Thought I seen true love before, but I was wrong. Anyways, I wish you well and that what you worry about is just some silly thought that wouldn't ever happen.
IIN if I feel like I brought my bf and sister together?
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If you've been in a serious relationship with him for a while, you're sister shouldn't date him--that would be a super shitty thing to do. I once had the chance to screw my bother's ex girlfriend (they were serious), but I didn't, even though I find her attractive.
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Well see it can go either way. Humans do shitty things, it doesn't matter if its messed up that prob won't stop it from happening after all, shit happens. Then it can turn out like you, yeah they both have a thing for each other but they won't do anything about it because it's a messed up thing to do to me. Either way, the truth is there. Both ways are extremely shitty. Heck I rather have them be open about it and start dating then secretly into each other. It makes me so depressed.
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I Agree, people do shitty things. Now back in the day I had more morals than I have now. I Suppose the years made me more selfish and not being sorry. I Also have been less caring because I know caring only hurts you more if you care too much.
When I was 22 my best friend was the other guy. And when I had the chance to do the same to him I didn't. But ask me these days and I would. And wouldn't be sorry about it either, other people shouldn't ruin things if it doesn't work out for them, if another person is a match for them it shouldn't stop them from dating.
I made out with a woman in a relationship saying they have a open relationship, I didn't do it because it was a open relationship they have, it's because I was being selfish and I wanted her and I got to. And it doesn't even bother me or worry me.
Anyways, you should stop thinking so much on this because the more you do this and wind up pushing him away or talk about it you will for certain lose him. Personally though if it were me, I would prefer being with someone who doesn't look down on me, because I know I deserve better than that. So do you.
People deserve all kinds of things, but it's up to people themselves on how they see what they are worth and what they are willing to believe and fight for more than what they got they thought at first they deserved, until a person does something about it, this is what you got until you can learn to let go or fight.
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I get what you're saying but I haven't mentioned it to him however I have thought about it like in a slick way. I just know if I do it will for sure create a lot of tension so that's why i just resist and hold back.
There have been times where I feel confident about it like it doesn't bother me thinking about it cause its just so ridiculous how could it happen? He obviously loves me and were crazy about each other. Then I picture her face if I were to bring it it and it would be super shocked as if this assumption of mine never existed in the first place and I'm just thinking crazy things.
Sigh like I said if God is on my side it would turn out that way. I'd look completely crazy for thinking this but I can't deny my feelings bout it. Something just feels so wrong and I get embarrassed thinking about the official moment where the truth comes they like each other cause it is embarrassing. It's one of the most humiliating things anyone can go through. Your partner choosing your sibling over you.
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Things like this are never easy. I Been hurt, cheated on, and back when I had more morals I was the other guy in a relationship, he was never around, He was from Scotland and he was in the submarine so he be gone for a long time. So it was easy for her to pretend being single. She did the fake pregnancy thing, she was a compulsive liar. There is more to it though, but where this story is ending up at I have no idea if I have a child in Heaven or not, because if it was fake or not it didn't make it. She denied me of being with her when it was lost. Even though she lied a lot sometimes she would tell the truth.
All I know of relationships are that most are fickle and don't last. And more drama to deal with than being single. I Thought I seen true love before, but I was wrong. Anyways, I wish you well and that what you worry about is just some silly thought that wouldn't ever happen.