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I've been sexually aware since I was probably 5 or 6. Around the age of about 13 or 14, I started fantasizing me being raped. I get really turned on by the thought of it and many say it's just because I like the feeling of being dominated. But the problem is I am still a virgin, so how can I know if I do or not? Anyways, I just want to know if this is normal or not.
It's one of the most common fantasies among women, so yeah i'd say it's normal. But yes don't let it be your first time, if you feel like you need to be dominated on your first go around, have some empassioned semi-rough sex for your first time, lots of firm grips an lots of baby lotion so he can put on the pressure without feeling like the friction is going to rip your skin off.
definitely a normal fantasy.
in fact, while i am, for all other things, a lesbian,
i still enjoy being roughly used by a man, preferrably helpless.(focus word "used". if i feel he cares about me or it's emotional, thats an instant turn-off)
what my psychologist would have to say about that, i dunno, but i do understand you very well.