Is it normal if i dont mind a bf hooking up with me when he has a gf
Ok sooooo i know it already sounds bad but its not like that. I have hooked up with bfs but only because they want to too. I wont go and steal someones bf but if i want him and he comes to me then im gonna go for it. Now if i knew his gf like friends not close but just friends like hi bye then i wouldnt but if i just knew who she was and didnt talk to her at all then ill hook up with her bf if he came to me when i have feelings for him too. Now im sure everyone is thinking hes using you, hes going for you for pleasure only since he cant get some from his gf, etc. But i also want pleasure so were both on the same page. No one is using nobody. Of course there are feelings there but since he likes his girl more than me what can you do? However, in the end it pisses me off like in particular for two. Ive only hooked up with three bfs. But the first one i got mad at because he thought he can get away with having a gf and cheating on her so i stopped especially because he kept saying he liked me and i was like bull if you did you would break up with her but i can care less about that, atleast he could have admitted it and it would be fine. The recent one just got me upset because we hooked up in public when he wasnt talking to his gf i asked if he was still with her he said no then i asked him again he said honestly idn were just not talking right now and then on facebook afterwards maybe like a week later he posted up a picture of him and her. Its not that he used me or whatever its just that we hooked up in public so it looks really really bad. I dont know im going to stop and i know its bad in the first place but in the end its too much crap when in the beginning its meant for fun and thats it but the guy always thinks HES using HER when the girl is on the same page so no one is playing anyone. Why do people get in relationships when theyre not satisfied? It looks slutty if youre single and just playing the field but everyone does it or atleast wishes they had balls to but they dont because they feel like they will be called a slut but as long as youre careful and know what youre doing. I dont want a bf for that reason because what if i get tempted I dont want to hurt my bf and yah thats my weakness oh well im human. Until i finally found someone i wanna be with, makes me happy and makes me not think about other dudes then ill settle other than that im not going to be with someone just because i like them. Its called dating before anything serious happens and you mess up.