Is it normal if i dont like perfect things?

Im seeing this guy and this process is making me realize I like imperfections. Because he's too good to be true especially after being involved with so many douchebags in the past, I tend to start something on purpose but nothing huge just instigate a bit. I guess because I like that feeling of tension, but I dont like drama infact I never had a real drama issue so if it were to happen in the future, Id be screwed cause I dont know how to deal with it. For example, my guy and I had a good time the other night just went out for his birthday then he came to my place and it just felt good to have him there in my room we were just laughing, cuddling, it was a good time and then the next day, we were texting in the morning but I decided ehh Im not going to reply back this time just to see what happens. Its not like he did something bad, I just felt like causing some tension I guess and wonder hmm lets see if hell text me tomorrow which is today cause we were planning to go out. So at the same time it was like a test? But I really dont want to lose him. Im just playing games to spice it up a bit I suppose.
Gah the point is I dont like how I have one of the most hated qualities of a female; one to cause drama. Like I said though, I dont start yelling or anything, its just something small or lowkey I do to satisfy my need for tension. I think thats why girls like bad boys cause theres so much tension going on and we cant help but love it. On the bright side, this means we dont like perfect things as much as it seems like we would so guys stop being gentlemen and all that crap, just be you. Of course, I cant speak for every girl out there, but Im just saying as a person, I like tension and find perfection boring.

Is It Normal?
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  • Scientifically speaking, nothing in this world is perfect.

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  • Honestly, everyone has flaws. Some more than others. Ask him about his insecurities and what he fears or is bad at. I mean, if it bothers you that much then be a straight shooter.

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  • Perfection is kind of boring for me, but I can live with it.

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  • Or everything is.

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