You seem to contradict yourself. You are all about commitment, but you don't want this guy to call you his girlfriend? You think that relationships are not just about having fun, but you don't see why this guy is unhappy just having fun without commitment? Maybe some guys would like that, but this guy clearly doesn't.
It seems to me like you are scared of the "relationship" going tits up. A bit like a fear of rejection. There is nothing wrong with that, but like a fear of rejection you need to take the risk for it to be worth anything.
Do you not want a relationship with this guy? At the moment you are the opposite of clingy; you are far too cold and distant. This guy will become uninfatuated with you and move on unless you show an interest in him.
IIN if I don't want to have a boyfriend unless we'll get married?
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You seem to contradict yourself. You are all about commitment, but you don't want this guy to call you his girlfriend? You think that relationships are not just about having fun, but you don't see why this guy is unhappy just having fun without commitment? Maybe some guys would like that, but this guy clearly doesn't.
It seems to me like you are scared of the "relationship" going tits up. A bit like a fear of rejection. There is nothing wrong with that, but like a fear of rejection you need to take the risk for it to be worth anything.
Do you not want a relationship with this guy? At the moment you are the opposite of clingy; you are far too cold and distant. This guy will become uninfatuated with you and move on unless you show an interest in him.