Based on where your relationship stands, even with the feelings of your invisible relationship string, him letting you stay with him as your unofficial boyfriend that you have no choice but unofficially break up with is a really big deal. His emotions are spiraling over this. He probably questions whether or not he's just a means to an end, with the rides and the shelter, etc. Like you're this girl he really cares about and you keep insinuating you'd like more stuff from him. Your friends sound either stupid, selfish, or full of shit. Stop listening to them, they'll ruin what could be the start of something long and important in your life. Just because he isn't enthusiastic about doing you favors doesn't mean he doesn't care. He probably wants to make sure you actually care about him.
Also, never ever let other people in your relationship. It will ruin you every time. It's hard enough to be in a relationship with one person, don't invite your friends or family.
IIN if I don't want to come off as clingy?
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Based on where your relationship stands, even with the feelings of your invisible relationship string, him letting you stay with him as your unofficial boyfriend that you have no choice but unofficially break up with is a really big deal. His emotions are spiraling over this. He probably questions whether or not he's just a means to an end, with the rides and the shelter, etc. Like you're this girl he really cares about and you keep insinuating you'd like more stuff from him. Your friends sound either stupid, selfish, or full of shit. Stop listening to them, they'll ruin what could be the start of something long and important in your life. Just because he isn't enthusiastic about doing you favors doesn't mean he doesn't care. He probably wants to make sure you actually care about him.
Also, never ever let other people in your relationship. It will ruin you every time. It's hard enough to be in a relationship with one person, don't invite your friends or family.