Lol nope got it all wrong. This is a completely different situation. Why the ef would I wait to prove I can have control then drop him? Might as well drop him now! cause I already have control. But thats not the situation here is it? That's why I'm saying I'm conflicted because idk if he should be making the effort or not, where do we stand in that. Its a matter of who should do it and do they care enough to do it. And I mentioned that I like this guy more than my ex and I didn't elaborate on that much cause I thought just that would take care of it but what I meant to say was I love this guy and didn't love my ex so him doing all of that for me didn't mean as much as it would be if someone I love did it. And I didn't run away from my ex because of that, I just said I thought it was a little too much so I didn't like it that much
IIN if I don't want to come off as clingy?
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Lol nope got it all wrong. This is a completely different situation. Why the ef would I wait to prove I can have control then drop him? Might as well drop him now! cause I already have control. But thats not the situation here is it? That's why I'm saying I'm conflicted because idk if he should be making the effort or not, where do we stand in that. Its a matter of who should do it and do they care enough to do it. And I mentioned that I like this guy more than my ex and I didn't elaborate on that much cause I thought just that would take care of it but what I meant to say was I love this guy and didn't love my ex so him doing all of that for me didn't mean as much as it would be if someone I love did it. And I didn't run away from my ex because of that, I just said I thought it was a little too much so I didn't like it that much