Typical contradicting female mindset. You want your partner to be the initiator yet you associate initiating with clinginess, when mentioning your EX. Well let's think about it for a bit. You say you miss those gestures yet you ran away from that climate and now you want your actual boyfriend to retort to being needy so that YOU can gain the upper hand exactly like you did with your ex. In other words, to drop him like a fly. But you can't do that,cant't you? Since he's so indifferent it's a challenge for you. A challenge you can't get away from until you can prove to yourself that you're capable of taking control.
And that is why i just stick to fucking women then dropping them,without having to deal with all the emotional carousel and fight for control that you're subjected to during a relationship.
Lol nope got it all wrong. This is a completely different situation. Why the ef would I wait to prove I can have control then drop him? Might as well drop him now! cause I already have control. But thats not the situation here is it? That's why I'm saying I'm conflicted because idk if he should be making the effort or not, where do we stand in that. Its a matter of who should do it and do they care enough to do it. And I mentioned that I like this guy more than my ex and I didn't elaborate on that much cause I thought just that would take care of it but what I meant to say was I love this guy and didn't love my ex so him doing all of that for me didn't mean as much as it would be if someone I love did it. And I didn't run away from my ex because of that, I just said I thought it was a little too much so I didn't like it that much
IIN if I don't want to come off as clingy?
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Typical contradicting female mindset. You want your partner to be the initiator yet you associate initiating with clinginess, when mentioning your EX. Well let's think about it for a bit. You say you miss those gestures yet you ran away from that climate and now you want your actual boyfriend to retort to being needy so that YOU can gain the upper hand exactly like you did with your ex. In other words, to drop him like a fly. But you can't do that,cant't you? Since he's so indifferent it's a challenge for you. A challenge you can't get away from until you can prove to yourself that you're capable of taking control.
And that is why i just stick to fucking women then dropping them,without having to deal with all the emotional carousel and fight for control that you're subjected to during a relationship.
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Lol nope got it all wrong. This is a completely different situation. Why the ef would I wait to prove I can have control then drop him? Might as well drop him now! cause I already have control. But thats not the situation here is it? That's why I'm saying I'm conflicted because idk if he should be making the effort or not, where do we stand in that. Its a matter of who should do it and do they care enough to do it. And I mentioned that I like this guy more than my ex and I didn't elaborate on that much cause I thought just that would take care of it but what I meant to say was I love this guy and didn't love my ex so him doing all of that for me didn't mean as much as it would be if someone I love did it. And I didn't run away from my ex because of that, I just said I thought it was a little too much so I didn't like it that much
So I hate to agree with you but I'm agreeing with you.