Okay plus I don't plan on having sex casually, but if it happens then it happens. If I can stop myself, then great. At the end of the day, my hope is for him to gain respect for me and want to be with me again. The last thing I want is for him to think he can have me without committing later. The thing is I feel like if I hold back on having sex with him, or be more vulnerable in any way, he's going to go look for it somewhere else. But at the same time, if he is worth my time, then he wouldn't go somewhere else. Got it.
Is it normal if I don't know or like having boundaries?
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Okay plus I don't plan on having sex casually, but if it happens then it happens. If I can stop myself, then great. At the end of the day, my hope is for him to gain respect for me and want to be with me again. The last thing I want is for him to think he can have me without committing later. The thing is I feel like if I hold back on having sex with him, or be more vulnerable in any way, he's going to go look for it somewhere else. But at the same time, if he is worth my time, then he wouldn't go somewhere else. Got it.