If you truly care whether or not a guy cheats..... then DON'T be the one he cheats with.
Seriously, you say you want a mature answer... that's it.
You cannot bash someone for doing something wrong when you are helping them do it. I mean yes he is guilty however you are also a guilty party, so if you're going to throw stones, you need to examine your own behavior too.
Part of being mature is knowing when to stop playing games with other people's lives .... and when to try to stop justifying your own hurtful actions.
Thats true by cheating with him you are enabling him to be a cheater . However if you did not know of the other women in prevoius events that is not your fault either
I agree. If she didn't know he had a girlfriend and stopped seeing him when she found out, then I'd think it would be okay to tell her. Otherwise, she's just being spiteful.
you should totolly tell him you seem to care that he is chaeting and if you didnt know of the women in previoues events and stopped becuase you found out about the other women and situation you should tell her that he was cheating with you or question him infront ofront of her instead , becuase if you ecuse him infront of her hell try to put both at ease and say somthing hell regret
Is it normal if I do this after being a mistress?
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If you truly care whether or not a guy cheats..... then DON'T be the one he cheats with.
Seriously, you say you want a mature answer... that's it.
You cannot bash someone for doing something wrong when you are helping them do it. I mean yes he is guilty however you are also a guilty party, so if you're going to throw stones, you need to examine your own behavior too.
Part of being mature is knowing when to stop playing games with other people's lives .... and when to try to stop justifying your own hurtful actions.
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Thats true by cheating with him you are enabling him to be a cheater . However if you did not know of the other women in prevoius events that is not your fault either
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Depending on whether or not you continue however.
I mean if you have absolutely no idea (which in my opinion is very hard to pull off) then fine.
but if you continue on with them afterwords you lose all rights to say "i'm innocent"
I agree. If she didn't know he had a girlfriend and stopped seeing him when she found out, then I'd think it would be okay to tell her. Otherwise, she's just being spiteful.
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you should totolly tell him you seem to care that he is chaeting and if you didnt know of the women in previoues events and stopped becuase you found out about the other women and situation you should tell her that he was cheating with you or question him infront ofront of her instead , becuase if you ecuse him infront of her hell try to put both at ease and say somthing hell regret
Angel, you always have a great answer.....I couldn't agree more. Responsibility for the behaviour in the first place lays with both guilty parties.