If he's gotten away with it once, he may well cheat again. It's not your responsibility to inform her, but if you feel general compassion compels you to let her know, send her a letter or give her a phone call. Don't go round to her house. Also don't expect to be believed or necessarily for her to be grateful.
She'll be more upset about her relationship than eager to form a "I hate that guy" club with you, in which you high five each other and discuss what a dickhead he is and how much you're both "against him". She's more likely to resent you both. Let her know, then leave her and her boyfriend well alone.
Is it normal if I do this after being a mistress?
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If he's gotten away with it once, he may well cheat again. It's not your responsibility to inform her, but if you feel general compassion compels you to let her know, send her a letter or give her a phone call. Don't go round to her house. Also don't expect to be believed or necessarily for her to be grateful.
She'll be more upset about her relationship than eager to form a "I hate that guy" club with you, in which you high five each other and discuss what a dickhead he is and how much you're both "against him". She's more likely to resent you both. Let her know, then leave her and her boyfriend well alone.