Is it normal if i do this after being a mistress?

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I want to tell the girlfriend that her dude has been cheating on her. She'll probably be like "why the hell should I believe you?" Well cause it was with me, and who knows who else. It irritates the f*ck out of me that the guy feels cool that he has a gf on the side and other ones on the other. When I realized that, I said oh no I cannot give that satisfaction to guys HELL NO. I can careless if Im being used cause simply Im using him too! No ones playing each other even if he thinks he is like every guy does, ha there are some scandalous girls out there who will bite you in the a** especially when it comes to guys, hence. I laugh that off, but the only thing that bugs me in these cases is the guy feels good and nope not gonna let that happen again. So I want to tell her about him and be honest that yes Im one of the girls please break up with him or not even that but you deserve to know and not look like a fool cause the real fool here is him and when he sees me and you against him, wooo were gonna celebrate, that is if you ever want to see my face again. Should I do it? Whos done it and its fine to do? No immature comments please because I know this story sounds bad so you just want to be harsh but Im being sincere and need mature feedback.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago | pl

    If you truly care whether or not a guy cheats..... then DON'T be the one he cheats with.

    Seriously, you say you want a mature answer... that's it.

    You cannot bash someone for doing something wrong when you are helping them do it. I mean yes he is guilty however you are also a guilty party, so if you're going to throw stones, you need to examine your own behavior too.

    Part of being mature is knowing when to stop playing games with other people's lives .... and when to try to stop justifying your own hurtful actions.

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago | pl

      Thats true by cheating with him you are enabling him to be a cheater . However if you did not know of the other women in prevoius events that is not your fault either

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago | pl

        Depending on whether or not you continue however.

        I mean if you have absolutely no idea (which in my opinion is very hard to pull off) then fine.

        but if you continue on with them afterwords you lose all rights to say "i'm innocent"

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago | pl

      I agree. If she didn't know he had a girlfriend and stopped seeing him when she found out, then I'd think it would be okay to tell her. Otherwise, she's just being spiteful.

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      • Allistalla
        11 years ago | pl

        you should totolly tell him you seem to care that he is chaeting and if you didnt know of the women in previoues events and stopped becuase you found out about the other women and situation you should tell her that he was cheating with you or question him infront ofront of her instead , becuase if you ecuse him infront of her hell try to put both at ease and say somthing hell regret

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    • sleepingbeauty
      12 years ago | pl

      Angel, you always have a great answer.....I couldn't agree more. Responsibility for the behaviour in the first place lays with both guilty parties.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Sounds like you want to tell her just to get back at him and you have no real concern for her. Don't tell her, their relationship is none of your business and besides, the messenger always gets shot.

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago | pl

      ITs totolly her business as she will be the one factor that may ruin it and weather she wants to she is now part of the issue and relationship

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago | pl

      You know I realized that yeah that's true, thank you for telling me something I didn't know. I do want to get back at him and put him in his place, thats the main goal but that doesn't mean I don't feel bad at all or else I would try to find another way of getting back at him. Although the girl and I don't really talk, we know each other a little here and there. I know she is a goody goody so just speaking from perspective in general, she doesn't deserve a douche like him in the end.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago | pl

        "she doesn't deserve a douche like him in the end."

        Did you decide this before or after you had your affair with him?

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      12 years ago | pl

      I agree.

      It sounds like the OP wants to hurt the other girl.

      Because if she really cared about whether the guy was cheating... then she wouldn't have had sex with him in the first place.

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago | pl

    I say you should totolly tell her save that poor women the trouble but dont just tell their sit in the room and smile at him when he walks in the room and sit together and both ecuse him no man on earth will know how to deal with it when your both in the room . sitting thier with your judgeing glears . she deserves to know and if it is only to clear your couiesence you should tell her yourself and explain you had no idea becuase that is infact the right thing to do , catch him if your together he wont have any idea how to deal with it and will attempt to appease both of you " . thats how it always works ...

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  • 53739
    7 years ago | pl

    This has always been my fantasy, that I was cheating on my girlfriend and the girl I was having sex with told my girlfriend and they both cooperated with each other to plan out an elaborate trap to make me get hurt.

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  • PboDude
    10 years ago | pl

    Bitter.

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  • NIK123
    12 years ago | pl

    Wow dont do that

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago | pl

    Sounds like a Jerry Springer episode...

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  • disthing
    12 years ago | pl

    If he's gotten away with it once, he may well cheat again. It's not your responsibility to inform her, but if you feel general compassion compels you to let her know, send her a letter or give her a phone call. Don't go round to her house. Also don't expect to be believed or necessarily for her to be grateful.

    She'll be more upset about her relationship than eager to form a "I hate that guy" club with you, in which you high five each other and discuss what a dickhead he is and how much you're both "against him". She's more likely to resent you both. Let her know, then leave her and her boyfriend well alone.

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