Hmmm yes I like that you appreciate how I don't act nice and fake just to maintain positive vibes. I really really REALLY wish there were more people like that who admire honesty. HOWEVER, I always thought it was more mature to deal with the person's flaws and not let it impact you in any way. Not exactly acting fake but just learning to deal with it. But even though I think that way, that doesn't stop me from cutting people off. Sometimes I wish I had the strength to look passed people's flaws but I don't. I am working on it here and there but who I am takes over in the end and that's cutting people off.
Well, but you shouldn't feel bad about it. You're not weak for not liking everyone. No one likes everyone! If you are able to care for some people and give them your attention and even still be with them when they annoy you (not cut them off, that is) it means there's nothing wrong with you. You're just selective with the people you choose to give your affections to.
Is it normal if I cut off people and I'm fine with that?
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Hmmm yes I like that you appreciate how I don't act nice and fake just to maintain positive vibes. I really really REALLY wish there were more people like that who admire honesty. HOWEVER, I always thought it was more mature to deal with the person's flaws and not let it impact you in any way. Not exactly acting fake but just learning to deal with it. But even though I think that way, that doesn't stop me from cutting people off. Sometimes I wish I had the strength to look passed people's flaws but I don't. I am working on it here and there but who I am takes over in the end and that's cutting people off.
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Well, but you shouldn't feel bad about it. You're not weak for not liking everyone. No one likes everyone! If you are able to care for some people and give them your attention and even still be with them when they annoy you (not cut them off, that is) it means there's nothing wrong with you. You're just selective with the people you choose to give your affections to.