I feel similar to you. When I feel people are getting too close for comfort I move away. I can't deal with clinginess. I am fine with the occasional hangout but not when I see them every single day. I find being by myself or with others on days like that as solace. I just shield myself from getting too personal. It is horrible but I try not to just completely cut people off. I take a break from them to give them a chance to miss me and for me to miss them. It feels like relationships are rejuvenated afterwards.
I also do that! I back off when I realize its getting too personal. I'm going to write another post about that cause this is different. Here I am talking about once people annoy me.
I know it is supposedly bad to shield yourself from people but I don't feel like its bad. Some people do it cause of bad history with people, others (like me) feel better if they keep themselves to themselves.
Is it normal if I cut off people and I'm fine with that?
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I feel similar to you. When I feel people are getting too close for comfort I move away. I can't deal with clinginess. I am fine with the occasional hangout but not when I see them every single day. I find being by myself or with others on days like that as solace. I just shield myself from getting too personal. It is horrible but I try not to just completely cut people off. I take a break from them to give them a chance to miss me and for me to miss them. It feels like relationships are rejuvenated afterwards.
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I also do that! I back off when I realize its getting too personal. I'm going to write another post about that cause this is different. Here I am talking about once people annoy me.
I know it is supposedly bad to shield yourself from people but I don't feel like its bad. Some people do it cause of bad history with people, others (like me) feel better if they keep themselves to themselves.