Or he had some sense of pride. When my ex dumped me it was as if my world shattered around me (First time I get dumped) but did I beg him to reconsider? did I showed up at his door? NO. Because I have some self-respect and that is always going to be more important than fleeting love affairs.
YOU told him you wanted to break it off, he respected you and now you are worried that he didn't like you at all? He probably did but were mature enough to respect you. Something you should be happy about.
Let him be, if it didn't work the first time it wont work this second time around.
Well that's the thing. I think the way you do...I thought he prob did like me but in a mature way he let our thing go....however, the majority thinks that if he was interested enough he wouldn't have let us go he would fight for it so that's why I'm confused. Help :/
And as I just said, i loved my ex. I thought he was the one I might start a family with one day ... But still I refused to even try to fight for it when someone would just drop me that easily.
And now I'm glad that I did, Cuz I found something better.
We have fought about a lot but u know he said okay let's stop for the best I guess I should go with him? Because he respects us but if I would continue then he would be okay. Just lost cause i love him and us and want the best for us
It's your life, go and make your mistakes. You seem to have made up your mind about it.
Best wishes and for your sake I hope I'm wrong about this ending even shittier than it ended the first time.
No. You should not be with someone who makes it hurt. All couples fight some times but if you end up fighting a lot all the time what's so amazing about it? Fighting is horrible and I have honestly nearly NEVER fought with a boyfriend- I discuss the upcoming issues before they turn into something nasty. I can easily count the fights on one hand with three boyfriends over the last 6 years.
IIN if I can't stand why I let him go?
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Or he had some sense of pride. When my ex dumped me it was as if my world shattered around me (First time I get dumped) but did I beg him to reconsider? did I showed up at his door? NO. Because I have some self-respect and that is always going to be more important than fleeting love affairs.
YOU told him you wanted to break it off, he respected you and now you are worried that he didn't like you at all? He probably did but were mature enough to respect you. Something you should be happy about.
Let him be, if it didn't work the first time it wont work this second time around.
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Well that's the thing. I think the way you do...I thought he prob did like me but in a mature way he let our thing go....however, the majority thinks that if he was interested enough he wouldn't have let us go he would fight for it so that's why I'm confused. Help :/
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And as I just said, i loved my ex. I thought he was the one I might start a family with one day ... But still I refused to even try to fight for it when someone would just drop me that easily.
And now I'm glad that I did, Cuz I found something better.
May I ask what you fought about?
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We have fought about a lot but u know he said okay let's stop for the best I guess I should go with him? Because he respects us but if I would continue then he would be okay. Just lost cause i love him and us and want the best for us
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It's your life, go and make your mistakes. You seem to have made up your mind about it.
Best wishes and for your sake I hope I'm wrong about this ending even shittier than it ended the first time.
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Should I just stay w him even if it hurts ? Apparently some people don't know what they had until it was gone
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No. You should not be with someone who makes it hurt. All couples fight some times but if you end up fighting a lot all the time what's so amazing about it? Fighting is horrible and I have honestly nearly NEVER fought with a boyfriend- I discuss the upcoming issues before they turn into something nasty. I can easily count the fights on one hand with three boyfriends over the last 6 years.