He didn't take a fling to his family while he's been w me. This was before me. But what I'm saying is when he was w her he had taken her to a family function when she was just a fling, according to him. Now while with me, who is someone more serious to him (?), he hasn't taken me to a family function which confused me cause shouldn't he have if I am more than just a fling? So the fact that he hasn't taken me made me think I am just a fling too or prob even less. But after so much analyzing, its not really about whether taking me to see his family or not, its about what to believe I am according to him but since he's a liar its a lost cause.
Now it all comes down to that he is a liar regardless. He referred to his fling as basically "whatever" to make me feel better and say that I am more important since I have gotten to meet some of his family. Well she got to meet his family too so doesn't that mean she was also important too? But he says no cause he wants to make me feel better by saying what he thinks i want to hear which obviously has failed. The thing is why can't he just say that she was also someone important to him? I won't get mad or anything. He's a liar and idk what to believe w him. I don't know what I am to him...am I a fling too since that's how he referred to her and doesn't want to tell me that? Or I really do mean something to him but he thinks I'll feel better if he puts down the other girl? Will he put me down too to his next girl?
Meh.
IIN if he took his fling to a holiday w his family but not his gf?
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He didn't take a fling to his family while he's been w me. This was before me. But what I'm saying is when he was w her he had taken her to a family function when she was just a fling, according to him. Now while with me, who is someone more serious to him (?), he hasn't taken me to a family function which confused me cause shouldn't he have if I am more than just a fling? So the fact that he hasn't taken me made me think I am just a fling too or prob even less. But after so much analyzing, its not really about whether taking me to see his family or not, its about what to believe I am according to him but since he's a liar its a lost cause.
Now it all comes down to that he is a liar regardless. He referred to his fling as basically "whatever" to make me feel better and say that I am more important since I have gotten to meet some of his family. Well she got to meet his family too so doesn't that mean she was also important too? But he says no cause he wants to make me feel better by saying what he thinks i want to hear which obviously has failed. The thing is why can't he just say that she was also someone important to him? I won't get mad or anything. He's a liar and idk what to believe w him. I don't know what I am to him...am I a fling too since that's how he referred to her and doesn't want to tell me that? Or I really do mean something to him but he thinks I'll feel better if he puts down the other girl? Will he put me down too to his next girl?
Meh.