Is it normal if he does this but he's into me?

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Ive been kicking it with this guy for a few weeks now and he seriously is giving me mixed signals. I was on his instagram though and he posted something about if a guy is really into you he wouldn't be giving you mixed signals, he would meet you half way. So I was like okay good to know let's see if he is into me. But he's basically going against his post! He keeps hitting me up and when we chill he does nothing so if its like he has no game. Sometimes he won't hit me and I just leave it alone. Honestly, I don't think he is into me as I am into him but like I said, every now and then he makes it seem like he does want something but he is too shy to make a move or something. As much of a crush I have on him, I can't be messing around with someone who is not even that into me. So I want to end it but before Im gonna ask him where he stands and if he says "why do you think I am not into you" I am straight up gonna tell him "you act like you have no game so its confusing." As a guy, he'll probably find that offensive but what can I do? Just tell you how it really is. Is this guy into me? or he's just another one using me?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago | pl

    He's hitting you? you should fight back.

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    • Phishy
      10 years ago | pl

      Yeah, I think this IIN user lives in the ghetto or something of the liking.

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  • Short4Words
    10 years ago | pl

    Don't tell him he has no game. That might cause him to get defensive. Just tell him it's because he never made a move. It's the same thing, but nicer, and this way its less condemning and gives him an opportunity then.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    9 years ago | pl

    He's just shy. Jump on him. XD

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  • shin10912
    10 years ago | pl

    uhhh, you should meet him half way? sounds like you're leaving everything up to him and he's trying to keep it not too obvious. guys are simple. just talk to him first once in a while

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago | pl

      Nope I've done everything and he goes along with it but then again he's a guy and they usually go with it regardless of their feelings. So he's the one who needs to meet me half not me. Now ya I am leaving it all up to him since Ive been doing everything

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago | pl

    He's just not that into you. Get over it and move on. Don't waste time telling him he's got no game.

    Maybe he just wants to be friends and that's all there is to it. This all sounds quite presumptuous and a bit obsessive. There's nothing wrong with someone not wanting anything more than Platonic friendship.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    Some guys feel like the girl will notice the game so they cool it. If he's wanting to spend time with you often then he probably likes you, because most guys don't bother a whole lot unless they do.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago | pl

    Maybe he likes reality better than games.

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  • eastbeast
    10 years ago | pl

    Or just grab his hand a shove it down your pants.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago | pl

      Lol I might do that if I can't take it anymore

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