Hmm that's a tough one. I want to say that maybe you might not even be bi-sexual. You might actually be asexual. Bi-sexual is literally sticking your hand down someone's pants and being completely okay with whatever outcome you get (male/female. Don't get me confused with pansexuality).
However, you might just be completely confused and need some time to think about things. Basically, what I'd do if I was in your situation, is to totally sit it out, think about what you wanna do, and what your body needs. It's totally awesome to be a cuddle buddy for an asexual person. My best friend is asexual (I'm a female and he's a male). I would have totally been his cuddle buddy if I hadn't started dating this guy named Jack. Even still, me and my asexual friend still snuggle once in a while. It's just nice to feel that personal contact without there having to be this huge sexual thing. To me, having an asexual snuggle buddy is like family. You feel so comfortable with that person that you can lay your head on their shoulder, sleep next to them, sit in their lap, but there isn't anything romantic about it at all.
And hey, if you really feel like you need to have sex with a girl or a guy, then do it. If you're comfortable with it or your body is telling you that you need that level of intimacy with a person, then go out there and get you some. lol.
If you have any questions, or need someone to talk to, you can email me at [email protected]. And if anyone else has issues with this kind of thing, they can email me too. ^_^
Is it normal i would feel relieved dating an asexual?
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Hmm that's a tough one. I want to say that maybe you might not even be bi-sexual. You might actually be asexual. Bi-sexual is literally sticking your hand down someone's pants and being completely okay with whatever outcome you get (male/female. Don't get me confused with pansexuality).
However, you might just be completely confused and need some time to think about things. Basically, what I'd do if I was in your situation, is to totally sit it out, think about what you wanna do, and what your body needs. It's totally awesome to be a cuddle buddy for an asexual person. My best friend is asexual (I'm a female and he's a male). I would have totally been his cuddle buddy if I hadn't started dating this guy named Jack. Even still, me and my asexual friend still snuggle once in a while. It's just nice to feel that personal contact without there having to be this huge sexual thing. To me, having an asexual snuggle buddy is like family. You feel so comfortable with that person that you can lay your head on their shoulder, sleep next to them, sit in their lap, but there isn't anything romantic about it at all.
And hey, if you really feel like you need to have sex with a girl or a guy, then do it. If you're comfortable with it or your body is telling you that you need that level of intimacy with a person, then go out there and get you some. lol.
If you have any questions, or need someone to talk to, you can email me at [email protected]. And if anyone else has issues with this kind of thing, they can email me too. ^_^