Is it normal i wish my boyfriend would keep things from me..

baby, Dont throw dem happy meals up, yo. You aint fat girl. Tell yo beau wassup.. you dont want to lose yo toofs when dem stomach acids recycle and deterioate yo shit from the insides. Get dat creamy good stuff in da inside, and you'll look good on da outside yo.

I came on this poll with the intention of being rude and mean but your gay story made me feel nice inside.

It's normal for people in relationships to find other people attractive. But if it bothers you I think it's best you mention it to him.

As a guy being truthful. I do this too because im being truthful. I dont want to feel like I have to hide. My girl used to say who she thought was good looking. Guys will always look at other girls and its ok. We still love the ones we are with cause if we didnt well we wouldnt be with them. Guys will ALWAYS no matter what look at other girls.

If you don't trust him why are you still with him?

Remember... it's NOT BAD for someone to look. The question is ... if he does more than look.

More importantly, it doesn't matter how "hot" the other girls are... they CANNOT steal him like he's just a book they can put in a purse. He can only be "stolen" if he wants to cheat on you.

He thinks you're like a great buddy that he can say anything to BUT you just need to tell him that he's hurting you with these tiny things and I'm sure he'll try to stop.

If he doesn't, give him a taste of his own medicine by commenting on every man you see! He'll soon get the message ;o)

Your boyfriend is not supposed to be attracted at other chicks.if he is and you cannot stand it that much just dump him.keeping him from socializing to avoid eventual unwanted relationships is not gonna do any good to either of you.it's either you both take measures willingly to avoid other possible crushes and defend your relationship or none of you does.otherwise it is like keeping a birdie in a gilded cage against it's will cause you are afraid of losing him to an hotter sparrow.it is not normal cause while you keep him off facebook there are still plenty of occasions for him to set eyes on other chicks.unless you are planning on plucking his eyes out and locking him out of sight for the rest of his natural life.so it is either you decide to ignore that behavior even known he will keep doing it accepting it as an expression of his personality or you ask him to knock it off once and for all.some guys just cannot help it.even if you manage to make him stop doing that the way you are doing he is still gonna feel trapped more than loved.or trapped by your love.you better be straightforward with him.or you might end up married to a guy who despises you for limiting his freedoms in such a skeavy way.now i got to blaze.

I made the very same mistake with my ex, I told her "too much".

At least he's open and honest. Sounds like you need to work on your jealousy issues. If he hasn't cheated on you then he's not at fault. Just because he looks doesn't mean he's going to touch. On the other hand, he could work on being more discrete when you're around. I guess it all depends on how he oogles. My husband and I are pretty open about admiring the beauty in others. Im not worried that he'll cheat at all so its kind of playful.

I used to be bothered by this when I was 17 but it just doesn't bother me at all anymore. I don't know maybe it;s because I'm bi but if my bf likes a girls for whatever reason, nice boobs, nice ass, nice face, I'll probably just like her for the same reason. I like to admire people for what they have. As long as you bf isn't telling you he PREFERS other women to you I don't really see that there's a problem I think it's totally normal.

I hope you get the help you need with your eating disorder and hopefully one day you'll like yourself enough to appreciate other people too. It's be devastating if you let other people's existence get you down for the rest of your life.

Good luck x

In all honesty, me and you are different, I do WANT my bf to tell me everything, that way I can see how he ticks and what he likes/ don't likes... Makes you more aware of his actions... Be happy that he does tell you everything!

honesty is the best policy

also, he is keeping something from you...his 2nd girlfriend.

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my bf's the same. and i'm jealousy in person. but he says, he would feel guilty if he doesn't tell me. talk with your bf about your feelings, most certainly he doesn't know (:

Part of being a couple means learning to share and learning to communicate better with each other. If you are to grow as a couple, you need to tell him what bothers you or look for another that fills your dreams! Good luck with your choices!

Have you asked him to keep these thoughts to himself? Have you considered that while a cheat is likely to keep such thoughts secret someone else may just not want to imagine that there are things they can't tell you? Talk it over together - good luck.