You and everyone else, right? You mentioned "church" how would you look in your community if you got divorced? What's the cost of "happiness" when you already have kids who look at you and your wife as the "pillars" of their strengths?
Everyone deserves to be, everyone wants to be: happy. If only the world could be so unrealistic. I want to say its too late for you to think about what you are thinking about, but it might not be too late for you to take a vacation with your wife - now that your youngest is about to graduate.
The grass isn't always greener... Can you, do you really want to throw away everything you built up with your wife, just because of past regrets? Maybe you thought this all the way through, maybe divorce is clearly the best answer. If it is, then so be it. Your kids are old enough now and its obvious you have been dealing with this for quite some time now.
I want to think about it this way, your wife is at least giving you enough attention that she hasn't already decided to divorce you herself. She might be withholding sex but lets face it, she gave birth for goodness sake! She probably doesn't feel as sexy as she used to be (she's obviously more attractive then your ex right?).
A woman will stress you out, thats for sure. But, men aren't exactly daisies to deal with either. Don't get counseling, get your bags packed and do a "second honeymoon".
iin I wish I had married someone else
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You and everyone else, right? You mentioned "church" how would you look in your community if you got divorced? What's the cost of "happiness" when you already have kids who look at you and your wife as the "pillars" of their strengths?
Everyone deserves to be, everyone wants to be: happy. If only the world could be so unrealistic. I want to say its too late for you to think about what you are thinking about, but it might not be too late for you to take a vacation with your wife - now that your youngest is about to graduate.
The grass isn't always greener... Can you, do you really want to throw away everything you built up with your wife, just because of past regrets? Maybe you thought this all the way through, maybe divorce is clearly the best answer. If it is, then so be it. Your kids are old enough now and its obvious you have been dealing with this for quite some time now.
I want to think about it this way, your wife is at least giving you enough attention that she hasn't already decided to divorce you herself. She might be withholding sex but lets face it, she gave birth for goodness sake! She probably doesn't feel as sexy as she used to be (she's obviously more attractive then your ex right?).
A woman will stress you out, thats for sure. But, men aren't exactly daisies to deal with either. Don't get counseling, get your bags packed and do a "second honeymoon".