Is it normal i was the only one smart enough to not go in the house ?

I was lucky enough to be in this situation with 2 idiot freinds of mine I walked away and they almost got raped so I proved my life . some random black guy siad hey you should come into my house he was chatting them up and saying they looked pretty and they had met him hours before I had come to there house that day . They did not know him and niether did I , but he was very good looking and admitidly polite and very charasmatic but the fact he wanted us in his house I did not trust and he did not look to be as old as he siad he was . he siad he was 18 even though when the cop came that we called he siad that the guy told him he was 21 . my freinds tryed to convince me to go in with them. I was very reluctant and when he heard there would be 3 of us he siad " Oh I do not think I could handle 3 " that was another red flag that my freinds ignored . However I took the blessing and siad " you know what I have to go home anyways " so I walked back to my house and called my dad in a panic . This was a few years ago I was still a minor at the time . not 10 minutes later they come pounding at my door in a panic and say " he pulled out his dick and was trying to have sex with them . so I think I proved my know how and that is a true story .
I did not go in the house I chose to walk away . I often think I was messed up for leaving my freinds .what would you have done in the same situation . Is it normal I am the only one who knew we should walk away ?

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  • PalestinianGuy

    It's not that you're smart, but your friends are stupid.

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  • theaverageatheist

    you where smart not to trust him... i've been in a similar situation but luckely i managed to talk my friend out of folowing this guy I mean he was a complete stranger 19 yrs old (we where 15\14 at the time) WTF was she thinking....

    same, your friends sound a bit dumb to me

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Normal. You did the right thing. You shouldn't feel bad for leaving your friends. They teach kids in elementary school not to go with strangers. It's their own damn fault for not using what they learned.

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  • Rape has no purpose. Figthing may as will theft. Not to say these are good to do but they are done out of frustration. Not a interior motive that you are going to hurt someone. If you set a trap for a rabbit and eat the rabbit you made lunch. If you shoot a bird to say "look i can shoot" you do it for sport. He did it for fun not need do you see the diffrence.

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  • I love how many put they are idiots.

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  • thinkingaboutit

    july 4, when I was 16, I was coaxed into a bedroom with a pretty black boy who kept saying things like "your sooooo pretty gal soo prettty gall". He stared kissing my neck and dropped his pants. Um. Yeah shit happens. I just walked away, obviously creeped out because I had literally just met him. He ran down the hallway after me, with him drawers around his ankles. LOL. I was kind of mad because the girl I was there with didn't act like that kind of thing was a big deal. She just laughed. Basically, if you are really friends with someone, and you feel like they are walking into a minefield, AND IT'S NOT JUST YOUR PARANOIA, stop them.

    also, it's not about you being smarter. smart and stupid people a like get get fucked over all the time.

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  • Dad

    Its that old saying, if your friends jumped off a bridge should you too.

    No, you should decide what is best for you at the time. By walking away you gave your friends the chance to walk away with you. Its like a dare situation where no one actually wants to do the scary thing, but no one will stand down.

    I don't understand why on Earth would your friends (young teenage girls) would even want to go into some strangers house. What happened to their upbringing? Why aren't these girls being looked after? Do their parents even know where they are at ANY point in the day?

    I agree you should not wrap your children up in cotton wool. But if you have a 'silly' teenager, then you probably need to give them a bit more attention. I worry about the parents more so than I worry about the teenager doing the next silly thing.

    Your parents should take note, that these girls cannot be trusted and should not make the next decision on where you are all going today. Although I do hear that you can hitch a ride in blacked out vans to the city, I just don't trust its the best option for you, actually ever.

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  • Wambo37

    happend to me and 2 girl friends...I was still gay at the time. I was the only one smart enough not to go homw with that dude . he seemed 19 or 18. I was 17. I didt call the cops when they went home with him and i went to visit them later. Damn that was a fun night XD that wwas also the week I stopped drinking alcohol ! ( only week I ever drank alcohol )

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  • VioletTrees

    Allistalla, is that you?

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    • yes . I do not know how you guys always get it .

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      • VioletTrees

        Because you can't spell, and you don't understand what this site is for.

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        • Allistalla

          It is spelled it correct though? Also do you not know what a poll is for? Polls are pretty much as useless as making up quizzes if you think that the site is so useless go take it up with the creators and tell them you do not want us to be able to make polls anymore.

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  • Mmmpfh

    They don't sound like smart people at all. I never give in to situations that I'm pressured into if I'm not comfortable with them. I lose friends in the process but I think its been better overall for me that way

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  • Boo!

    I think thats kind of mean. I would never do that to my friends, my friends are really precious to me. If they were being idiots even if I had to drag them to my house and tell the dude "my dads a cops so back the fuck up." I would but never abandon my friends. Then once were in safely home I'd call the cops.

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    • I did try to stop them . they would not listen to me when I told them it was a bad idea . I told them no lets not and they were a year older . So.I did try I drew the line at entering his property .

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      • Boo!

        Oh I see. Well, everything went all right you did a good thing by calling your dad and they were safe so alls well that ends well. And the next time your with them they'll have the decency to listen to you.

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        • They did say that after this happened I was never allowed to go over to there houses again after that . I always was the voice of reason amongst all my friend . I tend to be everyone’s therapist.

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          • Boo!

            Haha, thats how I am with my friends. Some of them call me a therapist. To me its a compliment. :3 Its nice meeting another fellow theripist. :P

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  • AssBurgers

    Wow, you're such a cock-block.

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  • Darkoil

    I've read this exact story on here before.

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    • when and where? First time I am posting.

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  • Justsomejerk

    You are asking if it's normal but the voting choices are a poll. If you are asking what I would do, then I would have tried to get you girls inside one at a time.

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  • A Black dude, huh? Judging from your typing, you do seem like the type who would go for that type of thing. And indeed, if that's the case, I'm inclined to say that you deserve what's coming to you.

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    • Stop being a racist . He was a male who happened to be black and none of me or my girls are black I guess not being black is a crime to you racist .

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      • PalestinianGuy

        But it's not relevant to the story to mention the guy's race!

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      • Jesus, WHAT????

        Anyway, all I'm saying is that this type of thing really shouldn't surprise you too much. These are BLACKS we're talking about. And yes, only the lowest quality Whites get involved with Blacks.

        Btw, I indeed prefer to refer to them by a different word; I'm only using the term "Blacks" to avoid being censored.

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        • LizardSkin

          I'd go with negros, they are after white girls like the horse is after hay.

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      • LizardSkin

        It is a crime actually, they are savages.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    I would need to know how old you guys are. If you were around 16 or so I wouldn't necessarily call your friends stupid, they didn't want to mistrust someone without a reason to and that's not a big age difference for teenagers hanging out.

    If they were like, 10-12, that's a different story. There's a fine line here, because you want to be safe, but you don't want to go around living your life in fear either.

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    • At the time they were 17 and I was 16 I was a minor at the time this was a couple of years ago I am not that age anymore . Also it angered me more since I was a year younger than both of them and did not want to go into a random strangers house . They told me he said he did not want anything sexual he just wanted to chat and hang out but he was the only one living in the house which added to the fear of going along.

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      • kupokupo

        I thought you were possibly Allistalla but after spelling angered correctly, you can't be.

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        • I am Allistalla. You got it on the money !

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  • VioletTrees

    Also, it's pretty much super racist that you felt it was necessary to tell us that this man was black.

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    • theaverageatheist

      as much as I'm against racism, unfortunatly it does (at least in some parts of the world) mean something. now I don't now where the OP lives but the fact that she specifide he was black does mean that it does help work out if this guy is dangiorus for her country.

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      • Also I added that since it be inaccurate if you didnt in a case if he murdered them the cop might ask what did he look like what race is he and what color are his eyes was he muscular? So yes I guess its ok for a race to try rape children since they are the certein color. If KKK can not hang a black man a black man can not mess with little girls when he is in his early 20s. I hold no double standard all these people do black,white,yellow,black this is not ok I hold no double standard. They arrested kkk for krap but its impossible to arrest a black man? For all the crybabys know I could be black not saying I am but they dont know I never put up my picture. Stop the racism poeple no man of amy color can do this so bite my fukn ass!

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      • VioletTrees

        Mhmm. So you're against racism, but you think that race is an indicator of how dangerous somebody is? O…k.

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        • theaverageatheist

          depends by country, for exmple:where I live north african people only started to immigrate here in the last 10-20 yr. and mostly to leave their impovereshed countrys, so when they arraive they usualy have nothing and are very poor. since poverty usualy is conected to violence and crime, sooo the porest groop of people usualy is the "roughest" so best to be carefull around. while most indian people where i live are very rich and ofthen called the "nice guys" I remember my mom telling me when i was little that if i get lost i must go ither to a cop, or an indian famely and they will help. people are dangerous only because of there upbringing and their inviroment not because of their skin colour and I hate it when people judge some one by that, if i where to se a white person who looks kinda creepy i'm definetly going to stay clear of him\her.
          also one of my friends is black and she is the nices person i know.
          of course where you migh come frome things might be the other whay around, becouse of the history of your country and it's people.
          that being said i have noticed that african people where i live have been getting richer and infact crime caused by them has decresed, so as you can see it's poverty not race that makes a people dangeorus.

          now honestly i can't be bothered to have a racism debate, so can we end it at that.

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          • First off I was not I just am not going for a diffrent standard based apon race. Second yes poverty is why they have alot of crime. Also rape is not a crime poverty can create but theft is.

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            • theaverageatheist

              rape is a tipe of violence, and violence is usualy what badly brought up people do and it' usualy not truly poverty that makes people bad but strong inequality. small whonder that swizerland has the lowers crime rate in the world and infact is the most financialy equal country too

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    • Stop trying to start a race war please your racism is not welcomed stop trying to stir the pot. It is a fact I stated a fact I am not racist for being factual.

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