Yes, most people are always in trouble because of it too. Either you accept the trouble, or you put your heart on the back burner and follow your brain. Not everybody is able to do this. Scientists, engineers, and mathematicians find it easy.
I'm am not an especially technically minded person, but at my age I feel like it's slim pickens, because if someone is single, and especially if that person has never been married it's a bad sign by the late forties. It's true, looks are very important to me, and I'm not ashamed of that fact.
Anyway, like I've been saying. It's not the most important thing in the world to be coupled. I'm also pretty set in my ways so yeah, I like being alone at least now.
That's good that you are happy alone. In a few years, there will be more widowers for you to enjoy. And the good news is that widows and widowers have zero baggage. Nothing. Nada. Pfffft. Gone.
It's not morbid at all. It's the cleanest break you can ever have with a partner. Let's do a thought experiment. El Stupido dies. A couple of months later you visit his grave at the cemetery. There is in plain sight. The grave marker says "Long Tall Texan". It is totally over. Not only for you but for the world, for his family, for everybody. All the problems are buried six feet in the ground never to surface again. You feel a sense of freedom you have never felt before. Closure has never been this complete.
You turn to go to your car. The sun is brighter, and the wind whispers that the world in new once again.
Yeah, I've something like that in the past where I pretended the person was dead to me.
I don't want him dead I just wish he had been more like the sweet person I knew in the beginning. I don't much care for the Jeckyl and Hyde type of person. Anyway, I'm going to go to my support group night.
Is it normal I want to wear my girlfriend's panties?
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Yes, most people are always in trouble because of it too. Either you accept the trouble, or you put your heart on the back burner and follow your brain. Not everybody is able to do this. Scientists, engineers, and mathematicians find it easy.
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I'm am not an especially technically minded person, but at my age I feel like it's slim pickens, because if someone is single, and especially if that person has never been married it's a bad sign by the late forties. It's true, looks are very important to me, and I'm not ashamed of that fact.
Anyway, like I've been saying. It's not the most important thing in the world to be coupled. I'm also pretty set in my ways so yeah, I like being alone at least now.
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That's good that you are happy alone. In a few years, there will be more widowers for you to enjoy. And the good news is that widows and widowers have zero baggage. Nothing. Nada. Pfffft. Gone.
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That's kinda morbid.
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It's not morbid at all. It's the cleanest break you can ever have with a partner. Let's do a thought experiment. El Stupido dies. A couple of months later you visit his grave at the cemetery. There is in plain sight. The grave marker says "Long Tall Texan". It is totally over. Not only for you but for the world, for his family, for everybody. All the problems are buried six feet in the ground never to surface again. You feel a sense of freedom you have never felt before. Closure has never been this complete.
You turn to go to your car. The sun is brighter, and the wind whispers that the world in new once again.
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Yeah, I've something like that in the past where I pretended the person was dead to me.
I don't want him dead I just wish he had been more like the sweet person I knew in the beginning. I don't much care for the Jeckyl and Hyde type of person. Anyway, I'm going to go to my support group night.