Yes, wanting to physically harm someone who wronged you is bitterness. I used to daydream (and I will admit I still do) about destroying people's life who wronged me. I hid it as well. But, at least in my case, if I focused on the thought for long it began to manifest itself at time.
I assumed people were wronging me when they weren't and would call them out for something that wasn't significant. It's something I truly regret. That's why I think you need to fill your thoughts with something more productive.
Is it normal i want to kill any one who has remotely wronged me?
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Yes, wanting to physically harm someone who wronged you is bitterness. I used to daydream (and I will admit I still do) about destroying people's life who wronged me. I hid it as well. But, at least in my case, if I focused on the thought for long it began to manifest itself at time.
I assumed people were wronging me when they weren't and would call them out for something that wasn't significant. It's something I truly regret. That's why I think you need to fill your thoughts with something more productive.
We don't we both try to do the better thing?