One of the signs that you are truly comfortable with a person and vice versa is the ability to just sit in silence, even if you're both usually talkative. I'm sure there are guys at your school who want that too, but you aren't finding each other because everyone involved is so shy.
One of my best friends and I can sit in the car without talking for three hours without saying a word, just content to be in the same space as the other person. We don't even listen to music, usually. Sometimes we talk, but often we just sit and be. It's extremely relaxing and comforting and I hope you find that soon, with a friend or boyfriend.
Is it normal I want to date someone who I can be silent with?
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One of the signs that you are truly comfortable with a person and vice versa is the ability to just sit in silence, even if you're both usually talkative. I'm sure there are guys at your school who want that too, but you aren't finding each other because everyone involved is so shy.
One of my best friends and I can sit in the car without talking for three hours without saying a word, just content to be in the same space as the other person. We don't even listen to music, usually. Sometimes we talk, but often we just sit and be. It's extremely relaxing and comforting and I hope you find that soon, with a friend or boyfriend.