I fall into the 'grey area' of asexuality ... I define myself as a demisensual asexual.. this means that I absolutely adore being 'sensual' with my lover, as long as no vaginal penetration, or contact with that particular area.. is involved, whatsoever. oh and 'demi' refers to the fact that I can only enjoy this sensuality if a deep emotional connection is involved between myself and the person I am with..
He also falls into the 'grey area', and is >very< kinky with what he enjoys to do to me (not discussed in my post, as it was not relevant to the topic).. though, again, absolutely no 'sex' is involved with what we do: Arousal? yes, on both our parts! ...Desire to act on that arousal? no, not at all! does that make any sense at all?? it does to me, hehe
We were best friends, before we became intimate lovers.. And we had discussed everything about what the other wants and needs before we entered into any form of intimacy with each-other... We made our needs perfectly clear to each-other, discussed the things we were willing to compromise on, and decided that in the long run, we are really rather perfect for each-other ^_^
IIN I want to consume my lover alive? & want him to do the same to me?
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Hello again ^_^
I fall into the 'grey area' of asexuality ... I define myself as a demisensual asexual.. this means that I absolutely adore being 'sensual' with my lover, as long as no vaginal penetration, or contact with that particular area.. is involved, whatsoever. oh and 'demi' refers to the fact that I can only enjoy this sensuality if a deep emotional connection is involved between myself and the person I am with..
He also falls into the 'grey area', and is >very< kinky with what he enjoys to do to me (not discussed in my post, as it was not relevant to the topic).. though, again, absolutely no 'sex' is involved with what we do: Arousal? yes, on both our parts! ...Desire to act on that arousal? no, not at all! does that make any sense at all?? it does to me, hehe
We were best friends, before we became intimate lovers.. And we had discussed everything about what the other wants and needs before we entered into any form of intimacy with each-other... We made our needs perfectly clear to each-other, discussed the things we were willing to compromise on, and decided that in the long run, we are really rather perfect for each-other ^_^
Hope that helped answer your question =D
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Oooooh...that was very helpful actually. Thank you.
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you are most welcome ^_^