If you mean that you want to be shy as in afraid of talking to people and generally being a nervous quiet person all the time then no, I don't think it is normal. If you are simply an introvert and don't like creating a lot of conversation when you don't have to yet talks openly and long when actually speaking then it is completely normal. I get called shy all the time because I don't speak a lot but my friends know that I can be quite talkative. I just choose to not be open with people I know I won't get along with because that is pointless.
Is it normal I WANT to be shy?
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If you mean that you want to be shy as in afraid of talking to people and generally being a nervous quiet person all the time then no, I don't think it is normal. If you are simply an introvert and don't like creating a lot of conversation when you don't have to yet talks openly and long when actually speaking then it is completely normal. I get called shy all the time because I don't speak a lot but my friends know that I can be quite talkative. I just choose to not be open with people I know I won't get along with because that is pointless.