Surrogacy is a job and will turn into a full time one when I can no longer turn up to class. My professors aren't exactly going to believe my heart is in my course since im taking on full time jobs. I would probably be kicked out.
Secondly its the fact I will be judged for being pregnant and then without the baby. I am an extremely young person, like I said before. Many girls have babies around here, but are definitely not surrogates. In fact, I know a few girls who have babies and still are full time students getting top grades.
I do not know the legal side of surrogacy, but I am sure I am too young to do such a thing.
But that... still doesn't make any sense. I don't really know that much about surrogacy, but I don't see how living your life being pregnant with another couple's child is any different than being pregnant with your own; so how is that considered a full time job when being pregnant with your own child isn't?
And if you're a surrogate, I have no idea on earth why people would judge you for being pregnant and NOT keeping the baby; surrogates don't keep the baby. That's kind of what a surrogate does; they give the child back to the couple once it's born. And those girls you know who have kids? Being a mother is a full time job. It's a full time job that they have until those kids grow up and get out of the house. Do the professors think that their heart isn't in their studies because they have full time jobs?
If you don't want to be a surrogate, that's fine, but your logic just doesn't make any sense to me.
Is it normal I want to be pregnant but don't want a baby?
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Surrogacy is a job and will turn into a full time one when I can no longer turn up to class. My professors aren't exactly going to believe my heart is in my course since im taking on full time jobs. I would probably be kicked out.
Secondly its the fact I will be judged for being pregnant and then without the baby. I am an extremely young person, like I said before. Many girls have babies around here, but are definitely not surrogates. In fact, I know a few girls who have babies and still are full time students getting top grades.
I do not know the legal side of surrogacy, but I am sure I am too young to do such a thing.
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But that... still doesn't make any sense. I don't really know that much about surrogacy, but I don't see how living your life being pregnant with another couple's child is any different than being pregnant with your own; so how is that considered a full time job when being pregnant with your own child isn't?
And if you're a surrogate, I have no idea on earth why people would judge you for being pregnant and NOT keeping the baby; surrogates don't keep the baby. That's kind of what a surrogate does; they give the child back to the couple once it's born. And those girls you know who have kids? Being a mother is a full time job. It's a full time job that they have until those kids grow up and get out of the house. Do the professors think that their heart isn't in their studies because they have full time jobs?
If you don't want to be a surrogate, that's fine, but your logic just doesn't make any sense to me.