Most women have an innate biological desire to reproduce. As you have discovered, children are very difficult to raise and demanding on your body both during and after pregnancy and let's be honest, if women didn't have said desire, they'd probably never fucking reproduce BECAUSE children are such a pain in the ass. I am talking about decades ago when women were more social and spent enough time around other Mothers to know how difficult it was. Girls my age, now (at 20) tend to spend less time with their elders and more time with girls their age so they have little conception of how Motherhood is.
My Mom didn't have daycare service for my brother until he was 1, so *I* was the daycare and trust me, I know exactly what you are talking about. It is a shame seeing girls with less experience with children than me jump into Motherhood without a clue and then receive that massive shock when they realize that it wasn't the cute, lovable, roses and maternal bliss lifestyle that the television set, which is what parents most of our generation now, made them believe that it is.
Is it normal I want to be pregnant but don't want a baby?
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Most women have an innate biological desire to reproduce. As you have discovered, children are very difficult to raise and demanding on your body both during and after pregnancy and let's be honest, if women didn't have said desire, they'd probably never fucking reproduce BECAUSE children are such a pain in the ass. I am talking about decades ago when women were more social and spent enough time around other Mothers to know how difficult it was. Girls my age, now (at 20) tend to spend less time with their elders and more time with girls their age so they have little conception of how Motherhood is.
My Mom didn't have daycare service for my brother until he was 1, so *I* was the daycare and trust me, I know exactly what you are talking about. It is a shame seeing girls with less experience with children than me jump into Motherhood without a clue and then receive that massive shock when they realize that it wasn't the cute, lovable, roses and maternal bliss lifestyle that the television set, which is what parents most of our generation now, made them believe that it is.