A full day with a kid is a shock to the system for me. I think parents discover coping strategies and also have a permanently raised game but, even with that, it's still damned hard work.
I wish more people had your understanding of how hard it is before diving in themselves.
As for pregnancy, though, have you ever considered offering to be a surrogate mother? You'd be spreading a lot of joy to people who can't get pregnant and also you'll be the eternal Godmother of a baby you carried but don't have to look after.
Be aware, though, that the bonding chemicals that flood your system straight after birth may make it painful to give a baby away, even one that isn't yours to begin with.
Is it normal I want to be pregnant but don't want a baby?
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A full day with a kid is a shock to the system for me. I think parents discover coping strategies and also have a permanently raised game but, even with that, it's still damned hard work.
I wish more people had your understanding of how hard it is before diving in themselves.
As for pregnancy, though, have you ever considered offering to be a surrogate mother? You'd be spreading a lot of joy to people who can't get pregnant and also you'll be the eternal Godmother of a baby you carried but don't have to look after.
Be aware, though, that the bonding chemicals that flood your system straight after birth may make it painful to give a baby away, even one that isn't yours to begin with.