Is it normal i want something so bad it hurts?

okay, well I was recently looking at pictures of singers from some of my favorite bands (bring me the horizon, sleeping with sirens, I see stars, get scared, for all those sleeping) and I realized (and I know this sounds stupid, but) I want an emo/scene boy so bad it hurts. im not super-obsessd with them or anything, but whenever i see a picture of a guy like that I think about how I'll never have a guy like that and it makes me really sad :\ I go to this place called hangar84 and there's guys like that alllllll over the place, but idk how to talk to them): iin?

Is It Normal?
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  • I suppose so, but you have to realise that you're obsessing over a look. There's far more to men (and everyone) than looks.

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  • Sammmeee, goal is to date one before i die :)

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  • well since you like metal! There is a good jump off point, personally I love talking to chicks that know there metal!!

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  • Just do it and you might be surprised what conversations you'll have! Love yourself.

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  • You sound like your 13. You do realize that the people who look like this are probably very caught up in feeling sorry for themselves, are very attention seeking and will probably spend most of their time telling you "How much of an individual they are" or how they "Feel so different from everyone else". Unless your a "Scene kid" yourself, you probably don't know much about these kind of people, and don't realize that they generally aren't very fun or interesting people. Unless you ARE a scene kid, who feed on this kind of crap.

    Your basing what you think you want entirely on an image. Most of these guys will probably grow out of this imagine when they finish puberty.

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  • I feel exactly the same way as you!!!!!!!!!!

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