Don't let what these people say get to you. Yeah, it could be very problematic for a child to grow up without a father but many do and alot of them come out okay (Including myself, I suppose). I believe that as long as you can love your child and do everything for him/her (Including finding a father substitute such as a uncle, grandfather, etc), then it's fine. It seems that the ones who are against single mothers would rather you'd get married only for the whole thing to fall apart and the child to still grow up without a decent father. Did you know the divorce rate is above 50%? Personally, I think it's better for a kid to grow up with a single parent than to lose his/her father or mother during childhood via divorce and think it's "his/her fault" why father and mother don't love each other anymore and aren't together.
PS: If you're still unsure, you could always adopt. Atleast then, the child wouldn't be "Illegitimate" and be made fun of by it's peers. No one would give you as much trouble or grief either. AND, a child would be getting both a mother and a home.
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Don't let what these people say get to you. Yeah, it could be very problematic for a child to grow up without a father but many do and alot of them come out okay (Including myself, I suppose). I believe that as long as you can love your child and do everything for him/her (Including finding a father substitute such as a uncle, grandfather, etc), then it's fine. It seems that the ones who are against single mothers would rather you'd get married only for the whole thing to fall apart and the child to still grow up without a decent father. Did you know the divorce rate is above 50%? Personally, I think it's better for a kid to grow up with a single parent than to lose his/her father or mother during childhood via divorce and think it's "his/her fault" why father and mother don't love each other anymore and aren't together.
PS: If you're still unsure, you could always adopt. Atleast then, the child wouldn't be "Illegitimate" and be made fun of by it's peers. No one would give you as much trouble or grief either. AND, a child would be getting both a mother and a home.