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I'm 22 and I've slept with 20 guys. I told a guy I am seeing this and he freaked out! Even though his number is higher...I'm like, it's less than 3 a year for every year I've been sexually active? I'm at college and I study hard and don't want a relationship..but I still want a sex life - I've only had two one night stands ever. I didn't think 20 was that much...
Don't worry about it, most guys will be pussys about your number because deep down they will be scared you will have been with someone better than them. If they think that though then they probably are shit at sex and as such should not be worth your time. Who cares how many people you have shagged, in my experience the more guys a girl has fucked makes them better at sex and makes my experience with them better.
what he said. experience pays off.
only problem is that men are so weird about this.
most of them would LOVE to have sex with a "slut", but few would want a relationship.
It's still kind of a double morale. i don't find your number high at all, but i'd probably lie about it if asked, if you are with someone from your, say, dorm and don't want rumors about you.
The thing is that many guys will actively SEARCH for sex partners and come up with 5-10 in their life. The fact a "willing" girl knowing where to go has, depending on her standards, a much closer-to-100% success rate is ignored.
If you have double as many(or more) as them and _THEY_'ve been shagging anything willing that was remotely beautiful standing on 2 legs since they had their first erection, then you have to be a complete whore doing everybody you meet...the relationship-logic variant of troll science-
at the same time?
but if he's been with more than you have and he's giving you the riot act you may want to rethink the relationship.
he sounds like he wants to play the field and then marry a virgin
Yeah so what. 3 a year is nothing. I know a girl that does like 7 or 8 a year.